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writes: Ilove my wife's femininity. I love when she is dressed up, her perfume, clothes, boots, nylons, sexy underwear, etc.I am unable to communicate this without fear to her and am afraid she thinks I am weird. I suffered abuse as a kid and fear this uncertainity about being normal is a result. Any advice, because the feeling weird hurts.
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reader, shania  +, writes (17 November 2005):
 Wow! Will you marry me? You sound like a smashing fella! You are a lovely husband who really does appreciate his wife.It still shows,that you fancy your wife like mad,what woman wouldnt want that? I know you have emotional problems with abuse etc and perhaps some proper,professional councelling wouldnt go a miss.Tell your lucky wife how you feel,i bet she will be more understanding then you think.You having these thoughts are not weird you love your wife its as simple as that. Just say how you feel that you like what she wears,she will love you saying that.Every woman likes to feel appreciated,i know i would!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005): Don't be afraid. She married you didn't she? So even if she does think your wierd she probably likes it. You shouldn't feel uncomfortable around your wife. Tell her how you feel and she'll still love you the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005): Talk to her about it. You will probably find she thinks it is normal, which it is. You may be weird if you enjoyed your wife being masculine, but even then, each to their own. As a woman, I would love it for a man to make me feel feminine, and enjoy my femininity, but alas no. Who do you think she dresses up for?
Sorry about the abuse, but I cannot see the connection without knowing what kind of abuse. I presume you feel safe with your wife or you would not have married her, so trust her now, and if she is normal she will want you to show your desire to her.
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reader, Sami +, writes (16 November 2005):
Your wife would absolutely love it if you complimented her. She is probably dressing up hoping that you will notice and is disappointed when you seem not to. If you don't start complimenting her, other men's compliments start sounding good to a woman.
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