What is he trying to accomplish by doing all this?
Q. Hey everyone. Im so lost right now. i have nowhere else to turn to! Here is the story; recently I broke up with my ex because he got distant and I juss didnt trust him anymore. I found comments from other girls calling him babe n stuff on his ...
A. 12 July 2008: Sorry babe but I cant quite work out wots goin on here? U said that he didnt know any of your friends numbers but that he left them all voicemails and also "all my best friends got call restricted by him".
I think what has happened here is that ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing???
Q. Help someone please, I have finished with my husband of 19 years and I really don't want him back its over for good.... My problem is that I have fallen head over heals with a man ten years younger than me, we meet on holiday and he is the best t...
A. 9 November 2007: Sorry, but this nonsense. You dont just end a 19 yr marriage because of some young stud u "fall in love with" while on holiday. Holiday romances are not "real love" a holiday is a break from normalilty and holiday flings, while they may make u ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to talk to me and be honest with me about what she is feeling?
Q. My gf of 6 years and I have been havin a lot of problems and have split up twice now this year. We have 3 young kids together. We split up for around 2 weeks in Jan, during this time we spoke about all our problems and said that we both loved ea...
A. 1 April 2007: She hasnt said anything to me about the letter. Nothing at all. Its like she just wants to forget I exist. I don't understand why she is treating me like a piece of dirt.
I had the kids on Saturday and my oldest (5) was in tears asking w... (read in full...)
How can I get her to talk to me and be honest with me about what she is feeling?
Q. My gf of 6 years and I have been havin a lot of problems and have split up twice now this year. We have 3 young kids together. We split up for around 2 weeks in Jan, during this time we spoke about all our problems and said that we both loved ea...
A. 27 March 2007: Yes - Im an idiot - I really am. I gave her the letter this morning and I shouldn't have. But I actually feel much better for it because at least now I can leave her alone. Now she has the letter I have no urge whatsoever to ring her. Im ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am a mental person in a normal world?
Q. hello I really cant sleep any more my life is really so hard I am 36 years old 20 years working, I live with my memories and I do remember every thing or almost every thing that's happened in my life and I really dont know what to do any more, I a...
A. 27 March 2007: See a shrink - they will tell you if you are mental. How can you expect anyone on here to give a diagnoses with only a couple of paragraphs to work with?? Sorry if this answer seems blunt or patronising but its the stone-cold truth.... (read in full...)
Was what he said a chat up line or a statement?
Q. i need some advice people!! please help!! a guy recently made a comment to me at work saying he couldnt get a girlriend coz of the wierd shifts, I didnt think anything of it....until i mentioned it in passing conversation to a friend, thats when ...
A. 26 March 2007: Just talk to him. Casually; a nice smile and a hello everyday or a "how are you today" and he will soon get the message that you are interested. He seems like a shy type of guy, if he is then coming on too strong may make him run a mile so keep it ... (read in full...)
My husband has been seeing prostitutes behind my back!!!!!
Q. Hi, Just found out after 30 years of marriage hubby has been using prostitutes for 4 years behind my back, I had no idea, none whatsoever and I feel such a fool, he is begging for me to stay and work this out but I feel it is so hard to forgive ...
A. 26 March 2007: I have no idea what your going through, but from a man's perspective it really does seem like he is sorry. Handing you the purse strings is the clearest indication of your husbands regret and his intention to quit his addiction for you. I have ne... (read in full...)
Guys...are you serious about these kind of questions??
Q. My bf asked me one time if what is my ideal age to get married and to have a child, i asked him why? He said because he said that he wants to be prepared for it. I told him that 27 or 28 would be fine with me...may i ask, is it a sort of a joke? Or...
A. 9 February 2007: The question about marriage/kids in itself is not strange but I just thought his answer was! I suppose his answer could show that he is committed to you and simply thinking long-term. Only you will know yourself what context to put his reply in. ... (read in full...)
Should I keep him as a friend... or more?
Q. Hi. I hope someone can help me out with this. well i like this guys who is over 20yrs older than me. He flirts with me all the time and i am always finding myself visiting him while hes at work. hes always joking about me and him going for coffee or ...
A. 9 February 2007: Listen to the advice from the ladies here. You are far too young for this guy. His suggestions to bring you home for supper are quite creepy actually.
A lot of single guys in their late 30s (and quite a number who are not single!) would do... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to be jealous of my friend??
Q. I feel so stupid writing this so bear with me :) I've been in an LDR for about 1.5 years and everything's wonderful. Only one more month until I can see him! Well, recently I convinced my boyfriend to set up an instant messenger program on his c...
A. 9 February 2007: What form did the LDR take before you set up IM? Telephone conversations, letters or both? How frequently? Do you meet your bf in person often? Are you both aware and on the same wavelength as to how serious your relation is?
LDR are obviousl... (read in full...)
Guys...are you serious about these kind of questions??
Q. My bf asked me one time if what is my ideal age to get married and to have a child, i asked him why? He said because he said that he wants to be prepared for it. I told him that 27 or 28 would be fine with me...may i ask, is it a sort of a joke? Or...
A. 9 February 2007: I would be very concerned about his plans to have a business in your name. How much do you trust this guy? Have you been together long? It would be very easy for him to rack up huge debts which you would legally be landed with. Does he have any ... (read in full...)
My partner and I have split up but we still stay together, now she's acting as if nothing has happened
Q. My partner and i have just split up,we have been at least 3 years together. She has too many reasons why we split up but there is no reason to try and make things rite again. Honestly we fight alot and every fight that we had her whole family knows ...
A. 8 February 2007: You need to talk more about this "split". You still live together but if you are sleeping apart then you need to find a way to move out, even if only for a short while. Time and space is usually whats needed to provide some clarity. Without any ... (read in full...)
This is driving me crazy. After 2 years wouldnt she know if ahe wanted to be with me or not?
Q. Hey everyone i would appreciate it if you guys would help me decode a very difficult girl because it is essentially ruining my life at the moment. she put us on a "break" a month ago and says she doesnt want anything "serious".. after a 2 year ...
A. 8 February 2007: Trying to get her to talk about it is only going to drive her further away. Especially if you end up arguing. I went through the same thing with a girl when I was 19. We were together for 4 years. If she says she wants time the best you can do i... (read in full...)
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