My parents don't approve of my boyfriend and I hate sneaking around but I have no other option. What should I do?
Q. I am 19 years old. I figured by now my parents wouldn't be able to control my love life but i guess it didn't work out that way. I met a guy, he's 20 and we've been talking for 4 months now. I enjoy being around him and everything about him is just ...
A. 11 March 2012: well....you are over 18 that means youre an adult. nobody should control your love life, its yours not theres! i know that your family is cautious about him, but if you love him then go for it. tell your family about how you feel abouit him and ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!
Q. I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. ...
A. 4 March 2012: Sounds great, the pool party! Definitely an amazing idea. And don't worry too much, you will suceed if you keep thinking positive as you are now. (:... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!
Q. I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. ...
A. 4 March 2012: Thats great, you honestly sound like a really nice person who's pretty cool. I can tell your boyfriend's sister is a really amazing friend to you so you guys should hang out and do something fun! And she might even introduce you to her friends. ... (read in full...)
She's completely in to me, I'm not in to her -- how to break up gently?
Q. A girl proposed me 7 months ago and told me that she has a crush on me since 2 years. As i dont want to break her heart so i replied YES as my answer to her. So then we started texting each other till late nights. I only have a physical attraction ...
A. 4 March 2012: You really messed up...Well I think you should tell her that you appreciate her feelings toward you but your love to her is subsiding and you can't lie to yourself and date someone you don't love anymore. Also include if she really does love you she ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!
Q. I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. ...
A. 3 March 2012: About the friends problem, I went through the exact same thing a few years ago. What I did to solve my situation was being more involved. I always had a smile on my face and gossip to talk about. I always hugged my friends, complimented them, and ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!
Q. I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. ...
A. 3 March 2012: You control who you are, and where you are going to go with that. You're probably feeling stress, eating more, being more negative and a bit depressed, stress. Be more active and get involved with more things. Maybe you should start exercisi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to put on facebook that he is in a relationship
Q. okay my boyfriend and i have both have a facebook he use to not have problem with putting that he is in a relationship with me now he don't want to he just wants to keep it as single. i have begged him to change it cause ill feel more comfortable ...
A. 3 March 2012: Awwww your boyfriend doesn't sound very considerate...( I honestly want to tell you to push your feelings onto him and make him realize you will feel much more relaxed if he does put his status on dating, and if he asks "How would you feel relaxed?" ... (read in full...)
My sister tried to break up my marriage and I can't get past it
Q. I am stuck. I am not able to move on after being hurt/betrayed by my sister who tried to break up my marrage and be with my husband. I want to be less angry and afraid. The pain at times is too much. I have become depressed and angry. I need to ...
A. 3 March 2012: Remember your sister is beyond lower than you if she truly did try breaking you and your husband up, so all you gotta do is tell her how you felt and tell her how low she went but you still forgive her AND be sure to let her know that deep down ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watching porn. Does he care about me?
Q. i recently discovered my bf watches porn behind my back i found this out when i was pregnant so i confronted him about it and of course he denied it so i gave him the benefit of the dought but then whist i was in hospital in slow labour he did it ...
A. 2 March 2012: Is he your kids father? If not I think you might as well dump him and find a better a guy. Him being on those porn sites are exactly like cheating on you, very disrespectful. He should consider you and your feelings, your not just some sex toy. ... (read in full...)
I tell my b/f that I trust him but I really don't. He cheated!
Q. my bf cheated on me 6 months ago with his best girl mate who he promised me it nothing ever like that between them. he told me half an hour after it happened and said it happened for literally half a minute, when he realized what he was doing he ...
A. 2 March 2012: Well first off, he trusted you enough to tell you his mistake instead of hiding it. Trust is not just given to you, you need to earn it. Cheating on you made you lose his trust which is understandable. Give him some more time and see where it ... (read in full...)
Ex is ruining my high school life
Q. Hey, Dearcupid. I'm really sorry about the length of this, but I desperately need some help. I broke up with my girlfriend of 26 months recently because she cheated on me THREE TIMES IN ONE NIGHT and still had the nerve to get angry at me for ...
A. 7 November 2011: I'm really sorry your ex is basically ruining your life and hurting you. The best thing to do right now is to inform an adult that you trust and you know will help you with this situation. I have once been in your shoes and I know it feels like ... (read in full...)
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