Confused as to how to act w/her..she's so busy!
Q. I was introduced to a girl over a month ago, we initially exchanged text messages and then spoke on the phone for over 3 hours then met up the same weekend for a coffee where we chatted for over an hour - i then text her the same evening and said ...
A. 1 April 2010: Well it appears that she is very busy. It also seems that you care for her more than she cares for you. You have to decide on whether that is what you want. You will always be a bit frustrated because she has some other thing doing. She likes you ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think I like him but I also don't want him to think I'm ignoring him. How do I make him understand I just want to be friends?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this boy best friend that I love to death but not in a way that I would want a relationship. I am a very flirty girl and I joke around but everyone knows it's just my personality. My guy friend told me that he liked me and ...
A. 21 March 2010: Just relate the way you've always related. sometimes we over stress on the status of relationships. 'We are friends', 'we are exclusive' rather than just being ourselves and letting nature take its course. Since you've explained to him that you are ... (read in full...)
Molested by dad's friend?
Q. My friend let's call her "Giselle" and myself were touched by my parents friend. Last Friday my parents were having a small party most of the people there were grown-ups that worked at the University with my dad. Anyway half way through the party my ...
A. 21 March 2010: You need to tell your parents so that it does not repeat itself. He may have a psychological problem. Take heart and take care.... (read in full...)
She delays in answering my call. Should I do the same?
Q. *OP's own title* I have a friend who says she is in some financial problem. My problem is that sometimes when i call her, she takes forever to call or flash back. Sometimes when i call, i feel 'she may not have enough credit to call back' and th...
A. 21 March 2010: Thanks Entirely unique, It's a little painful now, but i think in the long term if we are to be friends then i need to draw back a bit. I think no amount of assertiveness is as effective as treating someone the same way that they treat you, so that ... (read in full...)
Should I believe she never went further than texting another man?
Q. Hi i found out my partner for 18 years was texing a blokes phone that she meet in work, she told me it was just texing anh had been going on for 5 months. now she does not going out at weekends to pubs our anything, only calls to her mothers , and ...
A. 21 March 2010: Hello, I think you should trust her. You can ask her to reduce her texting. If he calls her, you should also ask that you would like to speak with him and just have a friendly chat with him. If he has ulterior motives,that will make him stop. You ... (read in full...)
I have large labia minora. Please help, and give me your opinions!
Q. Hi, I'm 16, and i have large labora minora (outer vaginal lips) i worry constantly, and what happens when it gets to the stage when i'm going a bit further in relationships? Please, male and female, give me your opinions. and i know its normal,...
A. 21 March 2010: I think you are thinking too much. You can meet your GP to get reassurance that you are normal. If a guy loves you, he'll be happy with the way you are.... (read in full...)
Is he afraid of commitment, or is he's playing me?
Q. I need some help understanding my relationship.I been seeing this guy since September and the first mistake I made earlier on is sleeping with him before we established a relationship with each other.We kept communicating with each other days after ...
A. 21 March 2010: It sounds like, he's simply using you for sex as you are now hooked on him. It doesn't sound like he is interested in a serious relationship. Haven given in early to sex, you are the one on the recieving line who is pursuing him instead of the other ... (read in full...)
My heart is in a million peices but I can't seem to move on!
Q. i need to move on and i dont know how to. im a girl of 25 and i was with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years. im still so in love with her and i feel like im dying without her but i need to move on for her sake i just dont know how to. i would love to ...
A. 21 March 2010: It's always terrible when there is a break in a relationship. Seperate for some time and things may be better in the future. Only time can be able to heal. You can try taking some herbal medication to help you calm down and sleep. You can also go ... (read in full...)
Would it be ok to break my own hymen before having sex?
Q. Dear Cupid, This may be a silly question, but I don't know if there`s a possibly for losing my virginity, actually, for intense breaking my hymen by myself using something in place of an actual dildo. I've never had sex, but I want to have a f...
A. 21 March 2010: Wait until the right time for sex and go naturally.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my sister in law that he husband cheated on her?
Q. When I graduated I moved into an apartment with my sister and her friend. By the time my sister got married her friend and I had gotten to be very close. After my sister moved out we stayed together as roommates and I want to make it clear that ...
A. 21 March 2010: Dont tell your sister in law anything. Let them settle their issues themselves. Dont get involved or you may end up regreting it as he may deny he ever told you anything and turn the tables around on you. Just walk away... (read in full...)
If you love someone tell them!
Q. A few years ago i fell in love with someone who i am still in love with. she got divorced although it wasn't because of me. she got divorced before i fell in love with her. she used to live i california and then kansas. i live in michigan. she grew ...
A. 13 February 2010: You missed your chance many years ago. You have to make the most of what you have now. You could go for marriage counselling with your wife and let her know how you feel. It will not be a good idea to divorce your wife and run away with your wife's ... (read in full...)
To call or not to call?
Q. Hi all, I have a friend who is in some financial difficulty. she called me telling me that she has finally gotten a job but needs some money to buy the uniform or she could lose the job. She told me how much it would cost. I transferred the ...
A. 13 February 2010: Thanks again everyone. I will tread carefully.I was giving expecting nothing in return. I just remember when i was in need and people came to help me. Thanks again. cheers... (read in full...)
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