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I'm in love with the man that he was two months ago. Why the sudden change in his behavior?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for quite some time. He lives in South Carolina; I live in Pennsylvania. He is 36 years old. I am 30. I don't know how we even got to this point because everything has been fine. For ...

A.   3 November 2010: Hi Ladies, Thanks for your responses! To Mizz.Butterflies: I agree that the way to go about this is to do nothing. Don't answer his silly little texts, etc. I haven't heard from him since the random Halloween text on Sunday. Maybe that will be... (read in full...)

He prefers the street life to me!!!

Q.   Hello. I'm 7 months pregnant and im so in love with my baby daddy. We've been together for 1 year and 2 weeks already and when we first started it was wonderful i loved it.. He didnt have a job but i made sure he had everything he needed we was ...

A.   2 November 2010: Hi there, I feel your pain. :( It sounds to me like your man has changed. I don't really know why men do this. Especially when they have something so good right in front of their faces and they do everything in their power to ruin it all. It... (read in full...)

I want my cheating husband to tell our daughter about his affair or leave his woman on the side but he wont come clean!

Q.   We are married for 10 yrs. with one daughter (14 yrs.old).My husband is currently working in middle east and he is having an affair of a girl who is also in another country for almost 6 months now.I told my husband to reveal this matter to our ...

A.   2 November 2010: I don't think that you should put your daughter in the middle of this. I understand that you are feeling like if you cut down on the communication that your daughter might resent you for it and you will be blamed as the mean Mom that won't let her ... (read in full...)

When we are together it feels so right, when we apart I am a mess.....but now he has got a girlfriend!

Q.   Hello all :( I'm really not sure what to do anymore regarding a man i've been seeing , or where any of my strength has gone. We started seeing each other casually about 10 months ago , hooking up now and again and grew quite close. i 've been...

A.   2 November 2010: I think you need to be honest about your feelings for him. If he tells you that he does not feel the same and that he only wants to be friends, then you need to make it clear that the snuggling and physical aspects of the relationship need to go ... (read in full...)

For the girls: Would it bother you if your boyfriend did this?

Q.   Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to ...

A.   2 November 2010: Yes, this bothers me, too. My boyfriend (I guess he's my ex now?) has a female friend that he is way too chummy with and it bothers me to no end. He insists there is nothing between them, but I disagree. There may be nothing on his end. But, I ... (read in full...)

I’m Seriously Considering Having an Affair with My Ex-Boyfriend/Best Friend

Q.   Sorry... it's a LONG one to read if you have time :-D So, I’ve been married for 6 years to my husband. I’m 28 and he’s 32. We had a great foundation of friendship before we got married and he is a wonderful man as far as he tries to provide...

A.   2 November 2010: I know that this is not the answer you are looking for, but I'm going to tell you anyway. I don't think you should do it. You were honest enough to tell your husband that you were considering it and he told you that it would kill him if you did. ... (read in full...)

Strongly believe in waiting until marriage, but tormented by the desire for more

Q.   Hi. I am Sylvester. I have a really sweet girlfriend, which I never thought she is to be so perfect in my eyes. She is reasonable, understanding and caring. She changed my life from a computer geek into a sunshine boy. I really appreciated and ...

A.   2 November 2010: Hi Sylvester, This is a really tough situation. It is hard because you have these physical desires. Plus, you are really in love with her, so you also have the emotional desire for closeness with her. You should be honest with her and explain ... (read in full...)

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