Why are so many people in abusive relationships/marriages?
Q. I read so many questions about people stuck in "abusive relationship"s and marriages and I can't help but wonder: 1. how did this happen? I mean, why do people let themselves be stepped on like that? Why do people treat their significant o...
A. 11 July 2010: When parents fight, argue which often escalates into physical blows or more - one becomes the dominator and the other dominatee.
It can be a cultural thing, economical or simply a case where relationship hinges on children.
But by far the children... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like I'm settling?
Q. Why is it when we're in a happy relationship we still question, is there any one better out there for us? We get the feeling that we're settling. Which is all well and good but what if we throw away what we had and end up with nothing. Is this the ...
A. 11 July 2010: You will always question yourself even if he is the prince of England - you are only human being.
As young you may be you are quite balanced to think through this
My suggestion would be do not commit yourself... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend show me affection?
Q. me and my girl has been together for 2-3 months. we had the same class in school and started talking when we saw each other. at that time she had a boyfriend and talked to me about her relationship with him. we also talked about anything else and ...
A. 10 July 2010: In a relationship there is always two sides like a contract.
Sometimes by our action we may annoy someone like having a bad habit - smoking or not showering etc etc
Often, we can attract someone with our winning smile and charm but not en... (read in full...)
It seems to me that we will never change our men. Take them as they are.
Q. I have been reading everyone’s posts and I am new to this but it has helped me already and I feel my husband is not as bad as some. I have been married for 20 years and I have a daughter with cystic fibrosis. This has caused an immense strain on our ...
A. 10 July 2010: There are HUSBANDS and then there are GIRLFRIENDS!!!
He can't play both roles you know
You should try to discuss your personal problem with close friends, sisters, mother or some significant member - like on this board :-)
You have left eac... (read in full...)
Advice for young teenagers thinking about having sex for the first time.
Q. i was going out with my boyfriend for only 2 months. we did have sex and it wasn't as pleasurable as anything on the tv/in magazines suggest it is. it was embarrassing and to be honest it was so painful (he has to break your hymen after all.) i was ...
A. 10 July 2010: THERE SHOULD BE MORE GIRLS LIKE YOU
SO BRAVE AND MATURE
YES, ABSOLUTELY RIGHT IN ALL COUNTS... (read in full...)
What can I do to be more mature??
Q. I am 25 and I act mature sometimes but I need to on a regular basis or else I will never be able to have a stable relationship. What can I do?...
A. 10 July 2010: I am not a big fan of Yoga or meditation. But I feel good when I step back a little and think constructively, criticize myself honestly I always find a way to keep myself cool.
Talk to yourself honestly, think of yourself truthfully and act acco... (read in full...)
What to do when the person you're attracted to is already taken.
Q. Run the hell away. I've seen several questions of this nature on the site. It seems like a simple problem, although in reality it's not. It's complicated and messy, and almost always leaves one person's emotions in ruins while the other enjoys hav...
A. 10 July 2010: No matter how simple a relation may look on the surface - it may not always be!!!
If a man is married or taken and is equally attracted to you as you are....lie back and enjoy it till it lasts.
You don't want anything more.
Never look into hi... (read in full...)
Big age difference, he has left wife with five kids, can this relationshio survive??
Q. What should one do when they have met a guy who is a lot older than themselves and married with five children but the marriage is not good. That guy then askes you out and this then causes major upset for their family. I mean real upset, parents ...
A. 10 July 2010: The million dollar question is.. ….. are you going to be happy??
It is not whether he has left his family - obviously they were not meant to be together
Don't get me wrong I do believe in marriages - but then it has to worked out between both... (read in full...)
How to Keep a Relationship Healthy
Q. To girls out there dating, give love but keep your heart in your own hands. Know that everything in this world has an end, and if the relation you are is of the sort you need to have your life at the end of it. Do not forget your old friends, ...
A. 10 July 2010: You shouldn’t expect anyone to give you anything my dear - even free time. If you keep it uncomplicated, no demands, no regret, no blame, no anticipation and no game – you will feel an inner peace that only you can gift yourself.
Do what you have... (read in full...)
Why is my family being so hurtful towards my boyfriend?
Q. I just started dating this guy last Tuesday. The next day we got together and had a first date. It was nice we were holding hands and trying to get to know one another by talking. He always calls me but I’ve been having family troubles so lack of ...
A. 10 July 2010: I have often asked myself why something - someone said hurt so much!!!
And the answer was - oh because I couldn't think of a repartee, or a quick answer and capping comment, the snappy comeback with a neat smile to match
It takes some time to... (read in full...)
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