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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:i was going out with my boyfriend for only 2 months. we did have sex and it wasn't as pleasurable as anything on the tv/in magazines suggest it is. it was embarrassing and to be honest it was so painful (he has to break your hymen after all.) i was in a bad situation when we done it, on the day i really didn't want to go through with it but i still did. my advice to you all my age is DONT do it. it does go around school and home, and all the trouble is not worth 'getting some.' boys will boast about it to there friends and for a while and your'll be the main highlight at school (in a bad way.) you might not listen to this and go ahead with having sex but just dont do it early on in a relationship. once they've had sex with you, whats left to do? it will all end quickly and leave you heartbroken.
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reader, cheerhotie10  +, writes (16 July 2010):
Im happy that uv laerned ur lesson. i sound SO MATURE.when u have children dont tell them you did this or it will seem ok 4 them 2 do it 2 so be carfull and keep speadin the word of young sex
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reader, Tasty +, writes (12 July 2010):
your right because when i lost my verginity it was a BIG misstake becuase i was going with my boyfriend for a couple of months and he started messing my head so we broke up nd i kept takling him back nd my mum nd dad said he was just using me for sex but i wouldn't listen and then we eneded up doing it and he dumped me the same day we done it, it left me heart broken and i lost all trust in boys for a while. I agree young teenagers like us should wait until they are in a stable relationship and they feel ready...
dont be preasurred into something your uncomfy with. xxxx
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reader, Ritasanyal +, writes (10 July 2010):
THERE SHOULD BE MORE GIRLS LIKE YOU
SO BRAVE AND MATURE
YES, ABSOLUTELY RIGHT IN ALL COUNTS
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reader, MissGirl +, writes (6 July 2010):
I know it is hard to deal with what your dealing with but the past is the past and it doesnt matter what people say me personally have decided to remain a virgin until marriage because of religious purposes I am a happy Christian I m not sayng you are a bad person because you decided to have sex you are just young and I know I sound old and wise but I am about your age a little younger and I do wrong sometimes no one is perfect you live with the choices you make and remember teenage boys are dogs they will say anything to get in your pants so dont be suprised when they brag to friends its judt them.
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reader, HAARP +, writes (3 July 2010):
Don't rush into it. Basically, one word: massage... Have him give you a massage if your thinking of doing it again. It'll get you both aroused and ready for the main event. Condom, though. Condom.
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