Why am I not good enough for a relationship, or even fun a second time ?
Q. Hi, please help I am really struggling I am trying to understand the pattern of events that keep happening. I have just got back onto the dating scene and wanted to have fun to gain casual experience, but ultimately looking for more. It see...
A. 2 August 2021: Some men have a certain type of low self-esteem, insecurity combination where they desperately seek affirmation of their self-worth by being desired for their sexual virility. This happens even in men you would otherwise never believe were insecure ... (read in full...)
Can a swinger give up that scene and be monogamous?
Q. Can a swinger give up that scene and be monogamous? I’ve started seeing someone who I really like. However they’ve been into swinging and I just don’t know if that’s something that people just give up. I prefer a monogamous relationship. ...
A. 7 May 2020: Would you give up sex, the way you like it, for the rest of your life for him?... (read in full...)
I just found out that he's married and having an affair with me behind his wife's back! I want to run but he makes me happier than I've ever been. What do I do?
Q. I have been dating the love of my life for 4 months. I am an extremely introverted person, but felt extremely comfortable with him from day 1. The connection that we share is indescribable. He is the sweetest, most loving man that I have ever met ...
A. 30 January 2019: Look, we all get it, you've found yourself in a very tough spot and it wasn't your fault. Now you're torn because the selfish "me" side of you wants what has been making you so happy, but the moral and realistic side of you knows what you need to ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why she did this to me
Q. I know part of the answer. She's selfish. Has some severe mental health issues but so do I, so I'm trying not to hold it against her. Been scouring all over the internet to understand. Narcissist? Bipolar? Just trying to make sense of all this. ...
A. 8 November 2018: I think the bigger question here is why do you let someone, anyone, treat you this way? Putting the idea of "love" aside, it seems like you're allowing her to treat you in an extremely disrespectful way. To me that means you don't even respect ... (read in full...)
People who were once a part of my life no longer miss me
Q. Hello all. I am male 33 and married, and doing fairly well in life. I feel stuck in life, stuck in my past memories, people who were near to me once upon a time I miss them so much. I feel so lonely and lost all the time, as if the world has moved ...
A. 31 October 2018: You have to stop looking to others for validation and take responsibility for your own self-worth and self-esteem. Quit wallowing in self-pity and instead make your mind up to be determined to make YOURSELF happy instead of expecting others to do ... (read in full...)
Is he just a liar toying with me?
Q. Here's the deal. I met a guy down here in texas because he we was here for work. Long story short we hung out all the time and he added me and my best friend on fb. After he left he told her that he really likes me, not to let me lose interest and ...
A. 31 October 2018: Yes, he is playing you. You already know that but don't want to accept it. Hanging out with you while he's away from home is fun, but don't expect anything more to come of it.
P.S.: I wouldn't bet against Honeypie on this...... (read in full...)
Would a guy settle for one woman if he can't have another?
Q. A guy complained that girl A does not like him. Girl A treats him indifferently. At the same time the guy was, and has becoming closer to girl B; who has always been in love with him. This guy and girl B having a relationship now. It seems like the...
A. 18 December 2017: Well...
Girl A is an immature manipulator who is used to getting her way.
Girl B is insecure and doesn't value herself enough to reject the idea of wanting someone who values Girl A more than her.
Guy? Well Guy is just in that familiar, h... (read in full...)
She's left me twice does she deserve my respect? Or do I just be her friend like nothing ever happened?
Q. Hello ladies, got a question for you, I was seeing this woman, she left me for another guy, OK, five years later we started to see each other again, she did it again, with a friend in a band, now he dumped her and she is trying to talk to me, am I ...
A. 10 December 2017: “I don’t think she deserves any respect from me.” It seems like you’ve answered your own question, and I agree with you. ... (read in full...)
What’s the best response to a break up message?
Q. If you are in a long term, committed relationship with a man, and he decides to break up with you [either because he's found someone else, or has just tired of you, or whatever his reason], in your experience, what is the best way for the woman to ...
A. 11 May 2016: "Is that how you really feel? You want to end this relationship?
"Okay, if that's how you feel, then I accept that. I wish that wasn't the case but I hope the best for you."
Leave it at that. Then don't contact him anymore.... (read in full...)
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