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He has a hard time with my past! He was addicted to cocaine..did the drugs mess with his head?
Q. ive been with my partener over a year now,and he just cant accept ive had a past..he gets really wound up and jealous....a good few years ago he was addicted to cocaine but hes been of it for 4 years now!.do u think the drugs are messing with his ...
A. 30 November 2006: Everybody has a past! There is no getting away from it.
I don't think it is the drugs messing with his mind, it's more like to do with his type of personality.
Is your past in his face? etc, see's exs around, people telling him this and tha... (read in full...)
My friend likes this boy but he likes me! What should I do?
Q. my friend liked this boy but the boy now likes me and i dont no what to do....
A. 12 November 2006: Hiya,
I would advise you to stay away from this boy, as corny as it sounds, the saying of "Men come and go, Friends will always be there" is true.
Cheerz ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mum is dying of cancer - she has weeks to live...
Q. hey everyone, ok so recently we've found out that my bf's mum in dying of cancer (about 2 month ago) the doctors predicted she'd pass away before xmas. now last night his dad rang us. they'd had the doctor out as she'd taken a turn for the worse n ...
A. 27 July 2006: You have said and done the right thing. It is going to be a rough time for him. Let him know and feel you'll be there whenever he wants to chat but try not to smother him, this is a common mistake people make. And also, don't forget to look... (read in full...)
I'm male, inexperienced and looking to learn some moves.
Q. I am an inexperienced male who is wondering what kind of moves i can make to show someone i am interested. I am not looking for anything big, i am still only 16, but i wish i knew more about this subject....
A. 25 July 2006: Some moves, Well a smile can go along way i.e. passing in the corridor and have not got time to say "Hi". Then when your feeling confident enough, go up to this person and start a conversation with "Hi, how are you?", find out what she is inte... (read in full...)
My dad was a paedophile... but has he changed?
Q. My father is on the sex offenders register for something he did 11 years ago. As his victims were teenage girls, this affected our relationship immensely as i was growing up, as supervised contact had to be arranged between us, and although i knew ...
A. 20 July 2006: I know how you feel in a way, my (ex) step father was and always will be a paedophile. There is nothing really you can do, no matter how much you try they will not change. I don't think you should confront him yourself about these issues, sp... (read in full...)
I fancy my boyfriends mate!
Q. hi, iv'e been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a 11 mounth old baby,the problem is i fancy his best mate and i think he fancys me.when i see him he always make eye contact and he sometimes stares right into my eyes,if i talk to him he seems...
A. 20 July 2006: You really need to be careful about this, especially since there is a baby involved.
There is lots of options for you but for every action there is going to be a reaction.
e.g. 1) if you going with your BF best mate, you'll know what will h... (read in full...)
Is my 30 year old wife too old for this "playful frolicking" with her dad?
Q. Ok my wife is 30 yrs old and still sits on her dads lap and they cuddle and she gives him a kiss. Hell she still calls him daddy! Isn't she too old for this? Shouldn't all of this stop by the time shes like 10. It isn't sexual or anything, I just...
A. 19 July 2006: No, she is not too old to be doing this.
You should appreciate that she still got a good relationship with her father as many do not due to growing away from their parents with age.
I think you should just get a grip! (sorry to be blunt)
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After a string of failed relationships, need some advice on how (or if) to make this one work...
Q. Im very confused. I had a great bf who was loving, committed, caring and we hv the best chemistry until everything change when he got a new job. He became hot-headed, intolerant and selfish. In the end, we broke up after 3yrs as we cant see eye to ...
A. 19 July 2006: First things first, you are not cursed! Never put yourself down like that.
I really think you are on the rebound with this new guy if you keep thinking about your ex all the time especially if you are having an intimate moment like sex.
And fa... (read in full...)
STD's, how are they caught?
Q. Can u get an STI from someone even if you use a condom? I heard that contact with any part of the genital area can still get you infected....
A. 19 July 2006: Yes, as "willywombat" stated different STDs are caught in many different ways, even if you wear condoms.
You should always, if you can, ask your sexual partners about their history.
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What can I do with my pubes?
Q. Was with my girl last week and she suggested I do something different with my pubic hair. I have never even thought of doing so. I play sport so there's showers afterwards so I can't do anything too "rad". Any suggestions from men and women on what ...
A. 19 July 2006: Hi,
I think just a good trim will suffice, this will keep you and your girlfriend happy. Also no one in the showers will notice either, I mean, they're not going to be gawking and zooming in to check the lengh of your pubic hair now, are they?
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Is it right for a 21 year old guy and a 15 year old girl to be in a relationship?
Q. Can a 21 yr old and a 15 yr old be in a relationship? I know sex is out of the question and I'm not really bothered about that at all, it's just there's this awsum girl i know and we talk and spend most time texting and we seem to be gettin on ...
A. 19 July 2006: Hi,
There is nothing particularly disastrous about the age gap apart from the sexual side.
I think you should take this quite slow, I mean she is still young in the mind and heart she can’t get into pubs or clubs while you can with your ma... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but I know I'M the right one for him...what can I do?
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl and i'm inlove with a guy who's 17 but his dating someone else,him and i have had a fling but then i started dating another guy for a while until i found out i'm madly inlove with the above mentioned guy!I really want him and ...
A. 19 July 2006: Hi,
I agree with a comment made by “Matron”, if they’re relationship comes to an end, it will come to an end, DON’T become the cause as it will end up a sticky situation and do you really think you’ll stand a chance then?
Get him to notice yo... (read in full...)
Am I still protected if I didn't start my Pill on the right day?
Q. I recently started the pill. My period started on Tuesday 7/11 I got the pill on Friday 7/14 and started taking it while I was still on my period. Now I am reading things that say I have to take it either on the DAY my period started OR the Sunday ...
A. 19 July 2006: Hi,
I asked a similar question to my doctor a few years back.
Yes you are protected; it doesn't matter what day you started on as long as you were on your period but it is still advisable to also use other forms of protection e.g. condoms, du... (read in full...)
I can talk to this girl like a friend, but I want to talk to her the way guys talk to girls!
Q. Hiya, My name's sean and I'm 16. there's this Girl whom I've known for 4 years and have had a HUGE crush on her ever since I met her. But the problem is that I can't really talk to girls when it comes to stuff like that. I can talk to them like a ...
A. 18 July 2006: Hi Sean,
I can understand your situation here; it's all about building your confidence.
What do you normally talk to your friends about? Something you both have a mutual interest in? Of course. Just do the same, find something she is... (read in full...)
My friend stole my potential man!
Q. My friend and I were at a club on Saturday night and I was too shy to talk to a guy I thought was cute and she went up and got his number for me. Later on I plucked up the courage to ask for it myself and when I looked at the number he gave my ...
A. 18 July 2006: Hi, I would have a discussion one to one with your friend and tell her how you feel, a real friend will back down and delete this guys number from her phone and since you’ve both only met him on Saturday it shouldn’t be too hard for her to do so... (read in full...)
What should I tell this girl so that she'll be my girlfriend?
Q. Hi!! my Name is Robert and this is my short story. I like this girl for like 2 years. I met her in college, now she is single and I want to tell her that I like her a lot, but I don't know if is not too early to talk to her. I want her to be my gi...
A. 18 July 2006: Hi Robert, I think your going to have to take your time with this girl, as in all probabilities she’s going to need some alone time, as we all do when we come out of a relationship. Show her you can be a friend, not only to go out and h... (read in full...)
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