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writes: I'm a 15 year old girl and i'm inlove with a guy who's 17 but his dating someone else,him and i have had a fling but then i started dating another guy for a while until i found out i'm madly inlove with the above mentioned guy!I really want him and i know his girlfriend at the moment isn't right for him.How can i get him to realise that i'm the right one?
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reader, rhc88 +, writes (19 July 2006):
 Hi,
I agree with a comment made by “Matron”, if they’re relationship comes to an end, it will come to an end, DON’T become the cause as it will end up a sticky situation and do you really think you’ll stand a chance then?
Get him to notice you as a friend; I’ll give you the same advice I gave someone else yesterday – be someone he can talk to as a confidant, show you are reliable, fun to be with and so on.
If the relationship breaks up with him and his girlfriend, don’t go rushing in there, he’ll need some time alone, be the friend “ a shoulder to cry on” and you never know what will happen.
Best of Luck! :-)
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reader, matron +, writes (30 June 2006):
 He obviously thinks that she is right for him or he wouldn't be with her,i doubt he thinks you are the right one for him otherwise when he had the fling with you he would have stuck with you, sorry to sound harsh but i would rather be honest with you than agree with you just because i know thats what you want to hear.
Leave them to get on with their relationship and if it does end dont be the one that caused it, try to find someone who isn't attached that way no-one gets hurt, if you pursue this i feel that you will be the one who ends up getting hurt. If in the future he becomes available and approachs you and you're still interested go for it, in the meantime have a good time with your mates enjoy your youth and freedom. good luck x
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (29 June 2006):
 If his girlfriend at the moment isnt the one, then he will eventually break up with her, so you will just have to wait it out until then. If he doesnt break up with her, you will know you were only fooling yourself...if he does, then take your chance.
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