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Is it safe to be nude at a tanning salon?

Q.   well this doesn't really relate to sex or much of what this site goes over but i was wanting to know if tanning in a place with tanning beds is safe? As in is there camera's or anything like that. and with my penis is it safe to use a tanning be ...

A.   24 March 2009: Many tanning beds do have cameras, to ensure customers do not engage in prohibited activities (e.g., masturbation, eating snacks, suicide, etc.). So you should be aware of that. It can also harm your penis. The foreskin can dry out, eventually ... (read in full...)

Threesomes and the mess that comes with it... is this slutty behaviour?

Q.   I am dating this girl who is without a doubt the greatest person I have ever met, however, I recently inquired about her having a threesome with two guys, mostly because I made a joke about us having a threesome with some random 10/10 I saw, then ...

A.   24 March 2009: Of course this is slutty behavior. By definition. The question you have to ask is if you care. Do you want a slutty girl who complements you in other respects? Are you prepared to be understanding and forgiving when her exotic sexual needs lea... (read in full...)

I'm so unhappy in my life

Q.   Dear Cupid For the last two years, I've been unhappy. During my finals at uni, this guy who I used to date contacted me after a long period. He said he liked me and wanted to date. To be honest I couldn't jeopardize my studies, I think at the tim...

A.   24 March 2009: You have learned a valuable lesson about placing career above love. Now you need to apply it to your life and open your heart to someone else. I would suggest you join the Communist Party, which stands for the interests of petty bourgeoi... (read in full...)

OMG my life is such a mess!!!

Q.   hiya ;) well right my mum's married to this guy who i actualli hate like not dislike he hates me too and if i ask my mum a question he will always but in and earlier my mum was telling me off and i said well why are you shouting at me and then he ...

A.   24 March 2009: Report him to the police. You are entitled to peace in your own home.... (read in full...)

I'm really falling for my friend with benefits!

Q.   I'm 14 and he's 15. We're friends with benefits! It started about a year ago with just fingering, then oral, then vaginal sex in all different positions and then anal. Now we just do whatever whenever. I think I'm falling for him, he's so lovely ...

A.   24 March 2009: Despite your claims to maturity, you are acting like a child. That's because you are one. This is why there are laws against children, like you and your boyfriend, having sex. Mature adults know how to handle the consequences of sex. You obvi... (read in full...)

I've had 2 abortions and I solely regret having them now...

Q.   Hi, I'm 24 year old female, I've had 2 abortions. I had the first one in August 2007 and thereafter in January 2008. The first time I was so scared I didn't even think of anything but my fear of my parents and my boyfriend at that time not at all ...

A.   24 March 2009: It is too late for regrets. The babies are dead already, and your boyfriend needs to step up to his new responsibilities as a father. Perhaps it's time you found someone else, a person with whom you have a less painful past? That said, pl... (read in full...)

Does he just want to be friends or does he like me more than a friend?

Q.   There's this guy that I like. I asked him to hang out with me a while back, and he seemed pretty nervous around me, like I could tell, and so could my friends. Also, when he was just around me, it seemed like he couldnt think of anything to say, and ...

A.   24 March 2009: Remember the Iron Law of Economics. The more scarce a resource is, the more valuable it is. That's why diamonds are worth more than bottled water. He's trying to attract you by making himself scarce. It's working. You should do the same. Le... (read in full...)

I kissed my female friend, am I bi?

Q.   So, about a week ago I spent the night with a really good friend who i've known is a lesbian...we kissed, and I broke it as soon as it happened. I told her I didn't want to, we agreed it was an accident, we put it behind us..but I did want to. I ...

A.   24 March 2009: No, you are not bisexual. Kissing is a pleasurable activity, but has little to do with sexual orientation. You probably just need a super Christian boyfriend.... (read in full...)

He cheated because he thought I did!!

Q.   I have been with my husband for six years. I am 34 and he is 28 we have a 4 year old and 8 month old. He has commitment problems. We get in a fight and leaves to his sisters for like 5-9 days then comes home for about two weeks and the cycle repeats ...

A.   24 March 2009: If your husband is impotent, this may be the root of your marriage problems. Women reach their peak later than men, so you may be craving sexual exploration. That said, keep in mind that you have a baby together, who deserves a peaceful, happy ho... (read in full...)

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