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Does he just want to be friends or does he like me more than a friend?

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Question - (23 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *eacelovepiiink writes:

There's this guy that I like. I asked him to hang out with me a while back, and he seemed pretty nervous around me, like I could tell, and so could my friends. Also, when he was just around me, it seemed like he couldnt think of anything to say, and he'd just be really shy, but if he was around people, he would be loud and really funny. My friends said he also looked at me a lot when I wasn't with him.

anyway, my friend was talking to her ex on the phone one night. Her ex is best friends with the guy I like, and he was also there that night. They brought up me, and the guy i like some how, and her ex said "he's not in a gf mood, but he does think shes really nice and cute." But what does that mean? Does he like me, or just as a friend. His best friend said it was also really obvious that i like him. I haven't talked to the guy I like in over a week since that night, and he's been recently signing on to myspace and not facebook anymore, and we always talked on facebook online. I have his number, but I don't want to talk to him first cause I want to get see his reaction towards me, if he might be interested, or if he's less interested.

I'm really confused, please help!!!! Thanks.

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A female reader, revanchist United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2009):

Remember the Iron Law of Economics. The more scarce a resource is, the more valuable it is. That's why diamonds are worth more than bottled water.

He's trying to attract you by making himself scarce. It's working. You should do the same. Let him know you are an attractive girl too. Here's how:

1. Be pretty. Don't develop an eating disorder, because that's disgusting. But do take care of your body. Exercise regularly. Condition your hair. Keep good posture.

2. Be smart. Do well in school. Learn calculus. Read The Economist. Play the violin. All things that let him know you're going places.

3. Be rich. Or at least pretend to be. A guy likes a woman he can take to classy functions. So break out your inner Jacqueline Kennedy.

Also, don't get a reputation for being easy. Herpes is not fun.

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