How can we get out of this vicious circle of annoyingness!?!?
Q. Where do i begin? I love my girlfriend to bits in fact more than i have loved anyone before, and i know she feels the same. we are crazy about each other! We have been together for around a year (on and off), im british and she is dutch. I...
A. 13 October 2008: Why did you not want to introduce her to any of the girls you met?? I'm assuming that they were just friends, right??
Women hate elusiveness because they think you are trying to hide something bad whenever you are evasive. I think perhaps a tad bit ... (read in full...)
How can I prepare to live on my own without my husband?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 23 years. Last year he had an affair with a girl that he worked with. I was devestated when I found out. I never even had a clue that this was going on, was hit totally blindsided when I found out. We work...
A. 6 October 2008: What's most strange to me is that he isn't even bothering to hide his bad behavior. Is he trying to get caught? Is it possible he needs some kind of psychological help? Anyway, definately reach out to friends and family for sure, and maybe read som... (read in full...)
Is this abuse? Should I get out of my relationship now?
Q. Should I get out of my relationship now? I am currently taking a break from my relationship with my boyfriend because I am working on issues from my past. My question is if he is abusive. Since we've been together for about 7 months a few things ...
A. 6 October 2008: Continue to work on your issues from your past and get in a better frame of mind. Honestly, this relationship sounds like someday it would get physically aggressive/abusive. From what you describe of him, he really seems kinda control-... (read in full...)
He doesn't want children and he believes marriage is a piece of paper but to me all those things are so important and that's the only way I believe my relationship can move forward.
Q. I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years it has been a long time coming and although im upset that it's ended I also feel relief. When we met we just clicked straight away and we both got on so well I thought this is the one and he i...
A. 6 October 2008: I say continue what you are doing and as hard as it is to see him so upset, it will pass in time. To keep this relationship going is not fair to either one of you. The things that you both want are just too different. Big issues like children... (read in full...)
Shall I give him time, or just move on?
Q. I started a relationship earlier this year. Personally I went through a very bad marriage for a while and he went through a terrible relationship couple years ago. I got recovered from the divorce and slowly started dating and I met him. I had t...
A. 6 October 2008: This guy doesn't sound like he knows what he wants and it seems like from what you've said here that his words often don't match his actions. You say that you want him back no matter if it's good for you or not, but do you really want that?! Y... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing to break up with him? I miss him but he made me feel so unimportant, taunted me, never appreciated/complimented me...
Q. I met my bf couple of years back and from then on I don’t remember not loving him..we were away for more than 6 months due to work but then started living in the same city again.. problems started the night of our first anniversary.. he proposed me ...
A. 27 September 2008: More importantly, ask yourself what you miss from someone who makes you feel so bad about yourself so that you won't pick these kind of men in the future.
You have definately made the correct choice in my opinion, and I don't think you will hav... (read in full...)
Can a 37 year old and a 23 year old ever work?
Q. Am I too young for this man? He is 37, I am 23. Any successes or snafus to avoid? Would this deter him from making a move on me? ...
A. 27 September 2008: Yes!! You are too young for this man!! You are going to change and grow so much more over the years sweetie!!I can tell you that at my current age of 41, I am pretty much an entirely different woman than I was at 23!!
Think of it like this: are ... (read in full...)
I hate how clingy and insecure I am so how do I stop?
Q. I'm looking for advice on how to stop being insecure, and how to talk to my boyfriend about the way I feel. My boyfriend is a good guy, but he is often moody and withdrawn. He goes from being really clingy and caring and affectionate to being really ...
A. 26 September 2008: Does this boyfriend's behavior remind you of someone that treated you this way in your immediate family?? Think hard on that one....
Ignore your friends - if he's like this all of the time and you are no exception, IT STILL AFFECTS YOU!! If he is l... (read in full...)
How can my husband and I improve our sex life?
Q. My husband and I have talked about trying to make our sex life better. What is the best way to show/teach him what I like and what gets me going? I know he doesn't have the experience I do, so it makes it a little more difficult for me. plz help ...
A. 26 September 2008: First all, I hope you aren't really in the 10-12 age group like it says in your desciption, but that must have been an oopsie, right?! Since it's already a topic you both have discussed and the door has now been opened, try writing it down on paper... (read in full...)
I keep finding myself at the bottom of the hierarchy at work over and over again! I'm tired of feeling like that 'worthless nothing'!
Q. Hi, I'm feeling very confused right now and was hoping any of you out there who have been in a similar situation, could give me some advice. I'm 25 and have been working in various fulltime office jobs over the past 10 years. I have one of ...
A. 26 September 2008: Wow - you sound like my "job history twin" if there is even such a thing!! I think you are just a sensitive person much like myself. I know for me, this sensitvity carries over to other areas of my life as well, both in it's good and bad ways.
Y... (read in full...)
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