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Interested in anal, but I can't seem to relax enough...

Q.   Would like to try anal sex. I'm a 50 year old woman. Been told it best to have an enema first because it can help to relax the muscles. What is the best position for me to try? Only tried on all fours with no luck. The tip of the penis only went ...

A.   12 May 2005: i have that problem sometimes and have found that a good set of 'butt plugs' help to get the anus more relaxed and used to having something in there, try ann summers, also use plenty!!!! of lube and go gently trust me its worth it! x ... (read in full...)

Waiting a year to try again for a baby seems forever... How do I deal with my feelings?

Q.   I'm 19 and I lost a baby 2 months ago. It was the most painful thing that I have ever gone through. I wanted our child more than anything in the world and my boyfriend felt the same. We are in a very happy relationship and are very much in love and...

A.   26 April 2005: hi i just want to thank you both for answering my question. you really helped me make sense of a few things. to bev - i never thought about it financially that way, i dont want my boyfriend to have to have that much responsibility he needs to spend ... (read in full...)

Why does my husband need internet porn?

Q.   I am so depressed, and I need someone to talk too. My husband looks at porn on the internet and jacks-off to it. What do I do?...

A.   26 April 2005: I think it's just something that all men do hun. Don't get depressed about it, instead invest in some good dvds and watch them together. In my experience it makes for a good time for both of you. as long as you two have a healthy sex life and he is ... (read in full...)

Feel like I'll end up having sex with someone else... but I don't want to.

Q.   I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and I care for him with all my heart and soul, but I'm meeting up with this guy who hit on me last week on the bus. What if we wind up having sex? I don't want to. I could never do that to my bf, cause I ...

A.   21 April 2005: First off i dont think of you as a bad person, i can tell by your letter that you are very confused. You care about your boyfriend but you're torn. if you want to meet up with another man and are worried that something may happen between the two of ... (read in full...)

Who has some hints to help me get my girlfriend off?

Q.   Hi, I'm a first time lesbian and I've just got together with my new girlfriend and whenever we have sex I can't get her to have an orgasm....

A.   20 April 2005: Have you tried talking to her about what she likes? If not, do it! Think about what you like that she does to you orally and manually and try to replicate that. Listen to the sounds she makes when you do this to her and go on that. Remember you're ... (read in full...)

I want it bigger... and I want to be better! Tips?

Q.   1) i want to make my cock more bigger then it is (:P) 2) what are the useful tips to make women happy at the time of sex? 3)how can 1 increase time while having sex with some 1 ?...

A.   20 April 2005: First of all, I know its a cliche but size actually doesn't always matter. As long as you are confident with yourself and with your lover then it shouldn't matter at all. To your second question, listen to your lover. Women are usually pretty r... (read in full...)

There's still a spark between my guy and his ex. Do I just leave them to it?

Q.   I started going out with this guy just about a week ago. I met him through college and our relationship got closer over a matter of time. The only problem is he's got two girl best mates. One of which he has been going out with on off. I understa...

A.   20 April 2005: There will be a connection between these two people as they are good friends and used to share an intimacy. But there is a reason why their relationship did not work and they were better as friends. Take comfort in the fact that he is with you and ... (read in full...)

I like him, but he's 2 years younger than me. Is he too young?

Q.   I am 18 and I really like someone who's 16 and male. I don't know what to do. Is he too young for me?...

A.   20 April 2005: If you like this boy and he likes you there is nothing to stop you from engaging in a relationship. Be aware though that although 2 years may not seem like a large age gap while you are both so young there may be a wider gap of maturity. Good Luck!... (read in full...)

After their affair, my husband keeps in contact. Am I wrong to object?

Q.   Is it right for my husband to contact someone he has had an affair with? I feel betrayed and think that he should have no contact whatsoever?...

A.   20 April 2005: You and your husband have a lot of trust issues to talk through and sort out. He has to earn the trust back that he took from you. Explain to him that if he wants to save your marrige he cannot have contact with the woman that is a constant reminder ... (read in full...)

He split with me and moved overseas... He didn't even come collect his stuff!

Q.   I split up from my fiance after 5 years in January 05. We were so close and I know for certain there was no one else. I tried to play hard to get so I nver contacted him for 2 months. All his belongings are still at my house so I always thought ...

A.   20 April 2005: First of all I want to say how sorry I am that your relationship did not work out. I know that this is a hard thing to do but give his belongings to a family member or friend of his to hold for him until his return. That way you won't have constant... (read in full...)

I don't want to hurt the girl I'm with, but I'm interested in someone my own age...

Q.   I'm 15 and have recently started talking to a 13 year old. Before that though I was seeing a girl my own age. I thought I really liked the 13 year old girl but now I have been talking to the girl my own age again and I'm starting to like her more. ...

A.   20 April 2005: Hi Sweetheart, If you are sure it is the 15 year old you really want then you have to talk to the 13 year old girl and explain to her, gently, because the last thing she will want to hear right now is that you have found someone else, that she... (read in full...)

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