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writes: I am so depressed, and I need someone to talk too. My husband looks at porn on the internet and jacks-off to it. What do I do?
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reader, safire +, writes (28 June 2005):
I Know how you are feeling, i have voiced i do not appreciate him looking at porn and if I am not sexy enough than maybe we should not be together! We have been married for 4 years and i have found porn hidden in hats in his closet, cupboards, fishing bags all on seperate occasions and most recently in his trunk wrapped in a shirt down with his spare tire! He blames it on me that I dont wanna do anything in bed with him! That is a lame cop out excuse and I will no longer take the blame! This time instead of crying and throwing a fit i told him he could keep the crap ! Then he whined oh great now you are not gonna touch me anymore! The magazines are still wrapped in the sshirt on my dresser and it is making me so sick too my stomach cause usually he will throw it away. Im over this I cannot deal with competing with these sluts in porn! They may say it's not a competition but too all of you women experiencing this you know it is a mental fight! Men are wimps and all they can do is blame us for there disgusting behavior! I pity the women that feel they have too end up in these raunchy magazines too pay the bills! By the way i am not a big fat ugly jealous women. I am a Model so dont look in the mirror and judge your self it doesm't matter too these pigs you could be pamela Anderson and still go through this crap. Because men are animals and no matter what the say or do they will continue with this behavior and sneak that much more just too get there jollies! Im sorry men just do not know the impact on there dirty behavior!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2005): My answer to your question is men are idiots you should try talking to him if that doesn't work, then try the silent approach. No, seriously if he doesn't know that it bothers you, then what do you expect? If he cares about your feelings then he would stop. I am dealing with the same stuff and it is a terrible feeling. If you need more advice just holla; there's lots more. Good Luck and stand firm and but loving.
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reader, rainbowshoes +, writes (26 April 2005):
I think it's just something that all men do hun. Don't get depressed about it, instead invest in some good dvds and watch them together. In my experience it makes for a good time for both of you. as long as you two have a healthy sex life and he is not substituting porn for you then it's not that he doesn't want you as well. If that is the case however or if you are really uncomfortable with it then talk to him, express how you feel and maybe you can come to a compromise
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