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I'm scared to get married again...

Q.   I left my husband for another man, after our marriage became passionless and I no longer loved my husband. I didn't rush into divorce, but moved in with the new man and things have been rocky but we love each other very much. Gave myself some time, ...

A.   7 February 2010: you don't need to get married, just stay in a de-facto relationship....and if things go really bad, you don't have to deal with any legal papers between you two...keep the financial stuff separate two, as much as possible... But yeah I agree with... (read in full...)

Internet man troubles. I am confused!

Q.   Hi I have been talking to a guy on the internet for 4 months getting on really well. Text me xmas and new year's eve then suddenly went quiet. Text him and he told me he was just really stressed and didn't have time for anything other than work, I ...

A.   7 February 2010: who knows his wife might have caught him texting you? Its an internet guy, he might have fed you some stories that he is single and available, but maybe he is not? Forget him and meet someone locally through freinds or some social club etc...... (read in full...)

Reconnected after 9 years but now he is engaged and I want him back!

Q.   Well i dated this guy about 9 years ago. We dated about 8 months and he was head over heels in love with me. He was the most wonderful boyfriend you could imagine and i loved him so much. We got along great but i was young and my friends were ...

A.   7 February 2010: well I am one of those people who believes in soulmate relationships. Soulmate relationships that are difficult, because there is always something that keeps the soulmates apart...I am experiencing this right now in my own life and its hard, but I ... (read in full...)

I wish I felt the same way about my husband as I do towards my lecturer....

Q.   I'm married and I love my husband dearly. However, last year I gave up my full time job to return to full time study in University. Since the very first day I have been besotted with my Physics lecturer! He's married with children; married ...

A.   5 February 2010: I believe your crush on your lecturer is a symptom of something that has to do with the issues in your marriage. I don't think it is wise to bring a child into this marriage, you need to address the issues first. Your husband is not meeting ... (read in full...)

Married and hopelessly lonely

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??...

A.   5 February 2010: You only have one life to live, don't waste your time on people who do not respect you, who are selfish and immature... I don't understand why people commit and get married when they obviously are not committment type people... He will never ... (read in full...)

I cheated twice and now my wife is emotionally distant. How can I get back in her good graces?

Q.   I have been married 8 years. My wife emotionally is not close to me. I admit I have done some wrong. I have cheated on her twice and I deeply regret it. Ever sine then I have done everything I could possibly think of to get back into her good grace ...

A.   5 February 2010: I would suggest for you to go for couples counselling, but only if you still love each other.... I think if you still love each other and want to stay married then you have to commmunicate and resolve issues. She resents you and feels deeply hurt, ... (read in full...)

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