Obviously he still finds me attractive but I'm not sure what he wants.
Q. Do you think this guy still likes me ? I bumped into him recently in a pub in town.we used to be seeing each other for about 2 months.my mum was with me when i bumped into him but she bought a drink for him and left us alone to talk.we didnt have a ...
A. 23 November 2011: Hard to say. He could've said all that because he was trying to cover up his guilt on ceasing all contact with you last time.
Or maybe he had a genuine reason for stopping the contact and does find you attractive.
I'd play it cool if i were y... (read in full...)
We're in a long distance relationship, how can I show her she's not alone?
Q. My girlfriend is telling me that she feels alone. We are in a long distance relationship and I'm trying my best to be communicate with her. What should I do? She's also been picked on by people who used to be her friends as well could that be ...
A. 23 November 2011: It could be many reasons why shes saying this. Hinting that she doesnt like the relationship and wishes it could change, trying to indicate that she generally feels alone in life and its nothing to do with the relationship, or generally feeling like ... (read in full...)
Did this seem like an unreasonable question to ask him? Why did he not reply?
Q. Hello All, I recently started a relationship with a guy and both of us were very nervous about getting into a relationship. After talking a lot about many things like previous relationships, family, friends, ect. and a few sleep overs without sex, ...
A. 23 November 2011: It sounds like hes a bit confused. He wants to go to this college but he knows you will get upset when he confirms you will hardly see each other. it's a hard decision to make but he is obviously looking at his future. I think you should assure hi... (read in full...)
Should I move in with b/f? Feelings are conflicted
Q. I am on placement in the city and he is in his graduate job so we are both hardworking adults in our 20s (I am 21 he is 22). He keeps mentioning us moving in together when I graduate, even looking at places we could potentially live (this would be ...
A. 23 November 2011: I'd seriously just tell him that you are flattered by the idea of moving in together one day, but you just can't see it being the right time while you are studying. If he wants to pry further, then give him your honest answer about not knowin... (read in full...)
So lost and hurt after discovering my boyfriend has been sleeping with some of his female friends
Q. What do I do? i love him so much but i'm so lost and hurt. I found out recently my bf has been sleeping with one of his friends since we got together and then found out he recently had a threesome with two of his other female friends. That and ...
A. 21 November 2011: Wow he has the whole cake and is eating it too!! This guy is using you. For whatever reason, I dont know. But some possibilities is that he has a 'girlfriend' in front of family so they dont know of his sleeping around, you're convenient to hi... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: Every woman is different. Some accept porn is normal, others are upset by it. When it becomes an issue is when the guy continues to do it, hides it and lies to the girl so that the girl finds out and the trust diminishes. The same happened wi... (read in full...)
Some insight needed to help me figure out how I feel about him
Q. hey, so i'm kinda of debating on if i like this guy or not. he's pretty much my type; he's tall, funny, cute, and nice. we flirt all the time and it always seems like were never serious. he always says stuff like- i like you, or your the best ...
A. 21 November 2011: Can I ask how old you are now? Why can't you just be friends until he turns 16 and then you can become official? Or talk to him and tell him you'd be interested in going out with him, but understand he needs to wait until 16 for permission to ... (read in full...)
Is he genuinely interested in me? Or am I just a rebound?
Q. Is he genuinely interested or am I just a rebound? I was friends with this guy in high school but we were mostly just school friends. This past summer (after our first year of college), we really became close friends and would hang out a lot. I a...
A. 21 November 2011: Have you ever asked him about this other girl? I guess it will be hard to bring it up in conversation but maybe you can say that back during the summer break you had seen he was quite good friends with the girl, and were just wondering if he still ... (read in full...)
I feel quite used, how could I have not noticed he was having an affair? with me!?
Q. hey i think i'm in alot of trouble. i've been seeing this guy, lets call him toby, for a good month or so and he's very sweet, kind, funny and good looking, i thought i had found my perfect guy.. he's always been busy with work and stuff...
A. 21 November 2011: Don't feel guilty. You NEVER knew he was married.
You are doing the right thing by ending it. Whether you tell his wife is another thing. If it were me, i'd want to tell his wife. She may hate you but she will also thank you later on as he could... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has trust issues and checks my email, facebook. I don't like this!
Q. Hi! My girlfriend seems to have some trust issues. I got an email from a kind of exgirlfriend and when I saw it on the mailbox my current girlfriend was right next to me and saw it too. The following day she read thoroughly my mailbox looking for ...
A. 21 November 2011: Of course you have a right to feel this way.
I am a girl, and i admit I have trust issues. THis is because I was cheated on in the past. But each person in a relationship has a right to their privacy.
The issue is not that she can easily see w... (read in full...)
Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry?
Q. Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry? I plan on talking to him today about how he makes me feel sometimes like he doesn't care and that he needs to show that he loves me ...
A. 10 August 2009: know how you feel. and i was dumped because i was annoyed at him for being like this and didnt understand which annoyed him... so my advice is to tell him, hear what he says and if it continues be careful how you react so you dont end up dumped like ... (read in full...)
Don't know what to do with myself after this breakup
Q. So I recently broke up wit my boyfriend. We were together 2 months. Not a long time but I felt we had a very good connection. I got introduced to his family and he was introduced to mine. I only really seen him twice a week in the end. But one day ...
A. 10 August 2009: I would honestly ask to meet up for coffee or a walk or something and ask him straight out where you stand. Maybe he is just as confused as you, or maybe he doesnt have the same feelings as you, i really cant say. but it doesnt sound like either of ... (read in full...)
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