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writes:So I recently broke up wit my boyfriend. We were together 2 months. Not a long time but I felt we had a very good connection. I got introduced to his family and he was introduced to mine. I only really seen him twice a week in the end. But one day when I called him he didn't answer so I figured he was busy. 3 days went by and I finally found him at the bar since my cousin texted me he was there. I definitely was not prepared for this. I was heartbroken I could sense our relationship was going south. I didn't talk to him for 7 days and got in touch with him through text messaging. I started by saying Hey and he said Hows it going? and then I said good. That was the extent of our convo. I recently just wrote him a poem about our relationship as well. Im sure its probably too much but I don't know what to do. It also says on his myspace lost and don't whats what anymore. He is a Scorpio and I'm a Aquarius. Please help me
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reader, questionable2009  +, writes (10 August 2009):
I would honestly ask to meet up for coffee or a walk or something and ask him straight out where you stand. Maybe he is just as confused as you, or maybe he doesnt have the same feelings as you, i really cant say. but it doesnt sound like either of you know where you stand. after a couple of months the whole communicating all the time thing can start to dwindle but this doesnt automatically mean someone doesnt want to be with the other person, sometimes its just that you feel more comfortable with that person. he obviously hasnt rushed (within those 7 days for example) to contact you or find out whats wrong but he has still talked to you. so before giving up or tearing your hair out, ask him straight out in person where you stand with him. it may be what you want to hear or may not be but at least you can know for sure and hopefully tell him exactly what you feel in return. 2 months is a long time when you really like someone.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 By the sounds of what your saying this really doesnt sound like a typical breakup.
Him not texting you or keeping in contact suggests he doesnt have the same feelings that you have for him.
Have you tried texting him or talking to him to find out where exactly you stand in this relationship?
The breaking up process is never easy and you should surround yourself with good people to help you get through this and give the support you need.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): I am confused, it doesn't sound like a break up, it sounds like he just didn't call you for a week.
Don't communicate through text or email or myspace or any of that crap. If you want to talk to him, speak to him on the phone or better yet in person.
I don't know what your horoscope signs have to do with anything....but communication is what is needed here. Perhaps he is just freaked out about something...dunno, ask, or wait for him to call you....tell him you prefer that if he texts you.
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