Ex partner is a born again Christian now and I am scared of our daughters upbringing
Q. Hello everyone, Can anyone please give me some advice on how to deal with bringing up my 2 year old daughter with my ex partner who is now an evangelist born again Christian. Before we split up I was with him for years and he hated all forms...
A. 30 August 2016: If things are getting a bit God-heavy, and you need help with refuting any arguments he might make, I can recommend a forum for atheists. It is a place where all sorts of God-related issues are discussed at length.
They are a friendly bunch. I... (read in full...)
Is it worth the risk of rejection to ask him out?
Q. There is a cute guy at work. His shift starts as mine ends, but we usually end up talking for 5-15 minutes anyway. He could just be friendly, but Im interested in more. Should I ask him out? Reason I hesitate is that he is younger than me by 10 ye...
A. 30 August 2016: You won't get an answer unless you ask.... (read in full...)
Never had a date. Should I pay someone to go on a date with me?
Q. I've never been on a date before, and I've never had a girlfriend. Of course that means I've never been intimate (never had first kiss or sex). I'm very awkward and I'm not very attractive aesthetically. So far no woman has been interested in go...
A. 30 August 2016: You're better off spending the money on joining a club. ... (read in full...)
I want to have the courage to talk to her!
Q. iam attending a 3month java course at a coaching centre suitated 60kms away from my home town.after completing 1 month,i noticed a cute girl and i started falling in love with her.im not very courageous to talk to girls but once i got a chance to ...
A. 30 August 2016: 1) Crush. You've projected an image of who she is and what she's like from her appearance into something you like. She could be horrible, or merely incompatible with you. Be very prepared for your image of her to be wrong. 2) Buy a magic wand if ... (read in full...)
Why did he have to come into my life and hurt me like this?
Q. family help me understand where I went wrong? How do I move on? My heart is broken I can't stop crying:( so my bf and I were dating for 11 months, he pressured me to get married. We started our wedding plans but I said we should stop cause he ...
A. 30 August 2016: It's plain you got suckered here, and also that you got a bit too fixated by him being a Christian without questioning what his religion means to him, how he interprets it, etc. It does sound suspiciously as if he wanted to use religion as a means ... (read in full...)
I've had sex with many men and I'm afraid of what my future husband will think?
Q. I had an intimate relationship with many boys when I was 19-20 years old. Im really upset with what I had done. And I'm scared that what would happen if in the future my husband would get to know about my bad body figure. Please help me?...
A. 30 August 2016: Nearly everyone regrets something they did in the past. Just don't let your future be defined by it. ... (read in full...)
Playing hard to get backfired, what do I do?
Q. i've made a big mistake and now i don't know how to handle it. I was with a lad for about 6months but we kept it casual although he would make the effort to speak to me everyday and we got on so well, but because of a previous bad experien...
A. 30 August 2016: Let it go and put it behind you, and don't waste too much time blaming yourself. After all there's not much point saying you're sure when you're not.
Men are like buses: there's always another one coming...
Don't panic!... (read in full...)
I was swept off my feet, then devalued and then discarded with no emotions
Q. Was I targeted by a sociopath? I met a 45 yr old guy online. It turned out we had many mutual fb friends. One of my exs was actually a friend of his. On our 2 nd date he'd told me he told him he'd met me. By our 3rd date he'd said he wanted more tha...
A. 25 July 2016: I'm inclined to think he knew pretty much exactly what he was doing and what he was looking for, which seems to be one conquest after another, and you were just another one in the line. It's almost intoxicating to get attention and I think that... (read in full...)
Why is this shy guy acting weird?
Q. A shy guy who has a crush on me tries to make me jealous by flirting with other girls around me and then he ignores me but if he sees any other guy even talking to me , he runs and come stands with me and try to be a part of the conversation. If the ...
A. 25 July 2016: It is obvious that he wants you in particular, rather than just anyone, which is encouraging. One strategy for getting a particular girl is to interact with all the others around except her, thus leaving her confused, jealous, etc, then move i... (read in full...)
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