How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?
Q. Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that w...
A. 17 October 2012: Anyway i am going to leave it a few days to give her space
then i am going to offer to find work there, or if it means i keep her then ill commute while i look for other work.
I am very reluctant to break my 'no contact' promise though as i ... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?
Q. Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that w...
A. 17 October 2012: Hey Cindy
Thanks for all the responses i appreciate it and it does help a lot to have a neutral opinion.
To clarify, i would be prepared to look for a job near her right away, even if it is packing or something - that way i could look for s... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?
Q. Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that w...
A. 17 October 2012: Thanks Cindy- What you said about a 2 hour commute being too much for anyone is pretty much what everyone has said..but i think i should have done it, even if only for a month or two while looking for work. If i had my time again i WOULD le... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?
Q. Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that w...
A. 17 October 2012: Thanks all I think some of the stuff is unfair to my partner to be honest (sorry, ex partner). I knew she was struggling with distance for a long long time. As for one last heart to heart, i doubt she would want that, i agreed to do no contact ... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?
Q. Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that w...
A. 17 October 2012: Thanks blonde30s. To be honest i dont think she would go back to the original plan now even if i asked. And i agreed to no contact for a bit and i would be breaking that promise if i mailed suggesting more talk. We talked about it a lot latel... (read in full...)
Does downloading 50 gb of porn equate to the use of a vibe?
Q. My boyfriend and I are both 25 years old. We've been dating for around 2.5 years. Things are far from perfect, mostly concerning him and other women, and also my own insecurities. Anyhow, recently, the issue with us has been that of porn. In rece...
A. 10 September 2009: Ok i know you wanted to get female feedback, but as a guy id like to comment on this. First off ALL guys watch porn, even if they are madly in love with their partner. It doesn't mean he doesn't fancy his GF or that he prefers the stars, it's just... (read in full...)
Did what I said push him away?
Q. I need help. I've been dating this guy for over 2 months. while we speak each day sometimes more than once,he is never clear on the direction of where we are going. he recently invited me to a family bbq who i know pretty well and he expected...
A. 9 September 2009: Ok, first off two months is a fair amount of time to be dating. Im assuming at that point things had become intimate?.
I cant really tell what your guy actually thinks of you- but if your worried that you 'said the wrong thing' then id send a s... (read in full...)
How long does a guy usually last when you go down on them?
Q. So my BF and I have reached 3rd base. (hands onley so far) His b-day is coming up soon, and I think I'd like to try going down on him... All I'm wondering, is how long does a guy usually last? I'm not worried about the whole coming in mouth thing, ...
A. 9 September 2009: Personally i can cum very quickly from oral because it gets me so excited watching it. But you can control it to a degree yourself.
It will be pretty obvious when he gets close, if you want to prolong it you can stop- maybee lick the shaft a ... (read in full...)
I can't maintain an erection with my current partner! What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I are having some problems with sex. I can't seem to maintain my erections with her. I've never had this problem with any of my previous partners, so I don't believe (and really want to refuse to believe) that it's some sort of ...
A. 14 August 2009: Its probably psychological, erection problems often are- and there more stressed you are the more likely it is to go limp. Try to relax, concentrate on other forms of lovemaking (oral, touching etc) and see if that helps. If not- then id go t... (read in full...)
Naked photos of women on my boyfriends phone and lack of sex are making me think he is just not that into me!
Q. about 6 months ago I found a naked photo of my boyfriends ex wife in his phone. We had been together about 6 years at this stage. He told me it was an old photo from years ago but his phone was only new - so either it was a new photo or he had ...
A. 14 August 2009: Yes it seems strange to have these pictures on his phone. And the answers he has given arent satisfactory.
I do think though, the mere fact you are looking at what is essentially a private thing (his phone) suggests a lack of trust within the rela... (read in full...)
My fiance won't let me see his email! Is this childish?
Q. My fiance refuses to let me see his email. He signs on under his own account on my computer. He says it is something that is "just his" and won't give me the password. We are both in our 40's. I think this is childish...or he's hiding something. The ...
A. 5 May 2009: He may be hiding something- but then again he may feel your showing distrust by asking!. I wouldnt hide my email from my partner but- if she started checking it regularly id feel upset.
Id look at the rest of the relationship, decide if he is so... (read in full...)
Lost erection... is this ED?
Q. Hi I have been dating for some months now, mainly seeing each other weekends. Things are going well, but today when it came to sex I completely lost my erection. Neither of us have discussed it, but we both know it happened. Was quite embarrass...
A. 25 November 2008: Just to let those who replied know, saw her last night and no problems . Did speak about what happened, and she seemed amazed i was worried about it as 'we had had a heavy weekend already'
Thanks to those who took the time to reply. ... (read in full...)
Lost erection... is this ED?
Q. Hi I have been dating for some months now, mainly seeing each other weekends. Things are going well, but today when it came to sex I completely lost my erection. Neither of us have discussed it, but we both know it happened. Was quite embarrass...
A. 24 November 2008: Thanks for the reply, yeah i know worrying about it can make it a problem even when none exists. I wasnt even feeling 'horny' that morning, i just knew she was and i was gonna just do something for her, since its something i love doing. She got very ... (read in full...)
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