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How do I make my self not care anymore?

Q.   How do I make myself feel confident? I honestly feel ugly but I know im not. I dont really know how too explain it. Its like.. Im just always so self concious and insecure when I go out too places because I know someone is better looking than me ...

A.   18 July 2012: first of all let me tell you when i was younger someone told me i was ugly. i´m a lady by the way and i thouht all those words were true and people would look at me and maybe i´d think they don´t see me pretty so i´m not pretty. then one day i grew... (read in full...)

Why do I seem to attract military guys?!

Q.   What kind of girl is the military guy typically attracted to? Is there a type they usually go after? I ask this because most of the guys (and I do mean the majority) who have been interested in me have been military guys. I dont live anywhere near a ...

A.   24 October 2011: jajaja yea i myself am a girl in the military going in and i'm helplessly in love with the wonderful man i'm with and honestly i don't have the problem you do. actually none of them hit on me. Total respect because i show that i'm not interested and ... (read in full...)

Why should I stay with a guy whose mom truly doesn't like me?

Q.   Why should I stay with a guy whose mom doesn't like me? I'm getting so fed up with everything, if I been with her son for 2 yrs why does she still sit there and acts like a bitch with me ? I never cheated on him or anything. Okay yes we have our ...

A.   24 October 2011: first of all if he doesn't stick up for you.. SHE is gonna keep on talking and running his life because he let's her. I had and have that problem as of right now but my boyfriend has told his mother and stuck up for me various times and in order for ... (read in full...)

How can I save this doomed friendship/relationship?

Q.   Hi, two saturdays ago I met a guy I'll call him Marty. He was very forward, kissing on the dance floor, I thought I could trust him. Hmmmm... Two days later I told him I was in his area and he asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. ...

A.   14 December 2009: he's just being but ass retarded you should move on and find soemthing better cause someone like that leads to nowhwere and besides you can't save what was never truly there. ... (read in full...)

Nervous... Sex for the first time!!!

Q.   okay so my boyfriend and i are about to have sex for the first time... we are both virgins, and i really want to and so does he but im scared. please help. i love him and everything is perfect but im just a little nervous and stuff. HELPP!...

A.   14 December 2009: please don't do it wait and get married me and my bf did sleep together for the first time and i loved him so much and then after we were together he stopped calling me and he didnt care about me so please wiht tears in my eyes do't do it you have ... (read in full...)

Depressed and lonely

Q.   I just finished school this year and i have never had a girlfriend. I'm not popular and i don't play any sports. I'm not very chatty. I prefer to be alone and be depressed. Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate....

A.   9 December 2009: i agree with the first person try dating sites i used to be like that and then i met more people out of my range that liked me and i liked them and before you know it u'll be off to a good start people on the internet even if it's not true to them, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't love m anymore, but he still cares about me?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. We became very close after about three months, I lost my virginity to him and he's the first guy I have actually sincerely loved. And he's different. He was the one that wanted to take everything ...

A.   5 December 2009: anonymous is wrong-that is probably a woman who wrote that, no if a man does that it means that he does care about you but men are like baby's and they need their mom to baby them meaning them being there for thlem all the time and making things ... (read in full...)

How do I transform into a girl boys love?

Q.   Hello, Im 13 and in High school. I feel that anything I do, it doesn't make me popular and i want to be popular with boys aswell. After 2 years at HS, i feel it is too late. I wouldnt say Im ugly and I wouldnt say Im big headed... I just speak my ...

A.   5 December 2009: Don't put yourself down okay. This is coming from a girl who gets chased around but chooses who she wants. It doesn't mean i want everyone because i have a type. Too majority of the boys i'm thought of as mysterious, tan, sporty,funny,smart,pretty ... (read in full...)

Am I reading into things about my teacher liking me?

Q.   Yeah, it's another one of those 'does my teacher like me' questions, but I'd like some genuine, sincere answers please. Please don't tell me whether you think it's wrong and that nothing can happen, I'm already aware of this and I'm not trying to ...

A.   5 December 2009: hi, i saw ur question and could'n't comment, this has happened to me many times throughout my life too, I'm a rather lovely girl and was quite popular in school because i was so pretty and likeable as a person and i had a few teacher that did the ... (read in full...)

Should I just let sleeping dogs lie?

Q.   I was molested as a child by my brothers but even though I was the youngest, we were only one and two years apart. I remember things from when I was 5 up until I left home at 15. I never spoke to them after that and have a lot of anxiety when it ...

A.   5 December 2009: I think you should confront him about it, because he will never know how you feel and you need to know why he would do soemthing like that besides attraction towards you. About him forgetting what happened the answer is no he hasn't forgotten ... (read in full...)

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