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writes:Hi, two saturdays ago I met a guy I'll call him Marty. He was very forward, kissing on the dance floor, I thought I could trust him. Hmmmm... Two days later I told him I was in his area and he asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. Mistake... or not! His daughter called, she asked to speak to me. The following day he told me that his daughter wanted to meet me, not knowing me. Hmmm. I called him several times during the day and this Saturday he told me to slow down because he could see I was moving too fast. I do like him. How could I save this doomed friendship/relationship???
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Once you call someone once and they don't respond right away, the ball is in their court. They know you called and have a choice to call back or not. He obviously likes you enough to tell you to slow down, so I don't think it's doomed yet. But you do need to slow down. Don't call more than once a day and wait for him to come to you. It does come off as clingy and over-eager if you call more than once a day unless there's a specific reason to. It worries me that you just act cavalier, I called several times that day... So back off the phone and let him come to you. If he likes you, he will. You can't make him like you by calling him more.
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reader, projectwatever +, writes (14 December 2009):
he's just being but ass retarded you should move on and find soemthing better cause someone like that leads to nowhwere and besides you can't save what was never truly there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Hello
why did his daughter want to meet you? if anything that seems abit fast! Maybe the daughter is behind him telling you to slow down.
I think, that you should call him less, because it might make you look abit eager. Also, remember the saying 'treat them mean keep them keen'...Let him chase you!
Maybe you could write him a letter or an email?
Just tell him you enjoy his friendship and company, and that he misunderstood the whole situation.
Just remember, if he doesnt want to know you, then it is definatly his loss.
Good luck and God bless
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