What do I say when people ask "why don't you have a girlfriend"?
Q. I tend to get asked this every now and then, and I just can't help but feel down and frustrated when they ask why I don't have a girlfriend. One, and pretty much the main, reason is that I just haven't bothered. Don't get me wrong, having a ...
A. 25 September 2012: It really isn't anybody else's business whether or not you have a girlfriend or if you want one. Who cares if it's not a "suitable" answer for them? That said if it makes you feel uncomfortable when they ask, you can always just say you're waiting ... (read in full...)
We have an awkward past, do I go to her 18th birthday night out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm back with another dose of my disastrous love life and am (as always) looking for a bit of advice! So not long ago I wrote http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-she-doesnt-like-me-in-that-way.html and I still have the same proble...
A. 17 November 2011: Thing is, she invited me before we spent the night together. It's weird, we're absolutely fine outside of college but inside college there's just.... awkwardness all around. I don't think it would be awkward there. Thing is, as I said I've tried ... (read in full...)
Why do guys play head games with girls who like them?
Q. What's up with guys baiting girls who they know like them? Like, what's the point? I think it's just cruel, and rude. It's happened to me and a few of my friends: a guy who is not actually interested in dating a girl (or even sleeping with her) but ...
A. 17 November 2011: It goes both ways, it's not just guys who to it to girls, women do it to men too. That doesn't make it any better, but you can't just confine it to one sex.
Anyway, I guess the main reason is control and attention. I mean, as human beings we live ... (read in full...)
I resent my boyfried for his past experiences!
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and My Boyfriend, we love each other so much. We've been together for 7 gonna be 8 months. And we're extremely happy together. The thing is, maybe two years ago, he had sex multiple times with his ex let's say her name is C. A...
A. 30 October 2011: Getting over someone's sexual history can be a daunting and rather confusing prospect, particularly for a teenager. As you get older and more sexually experienced yourself, it becomes less of a challenge and more of a normality (be that good or ... (read in full...)
Am I jealous? Or wrong to feel this way? She took me shopping to find a present for her ex!
Q. So, i'm in an AMAZING relationship with my girlfriend. She makes me happier than anything in the world. However, i get so upset about certain things. For example, she speaks about her ex alot. Like, "once we went to this place and it was grea...
A. 27 October 2011: I don't think you can say outright it's "wrong to be close to your ex". Plenty of people stay friends with their ex and as they once shared an intimate connection with that person, they may often be closer friends than "normal" friends. At the end ... (read in full...)
How do I make my new boyfriend more comfortable with the physical closeness I want?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about a month and I'm really attracted to him, we have tons in common and he's really easy to be around. The only problem is that he's not very 'hands on,' the most i've got out of him has been a short kiss before I had ...
A. 5 September 2011: The best advice from where I'm standing is don't rush it! Take things at his pace if you want to keep him. If he's never been intimate with anyone before, he's going to be nervous - fear of the unknown is only a self preservation instinct, nowadays ... (read in full...)
Guys: Why might I seem unapproachable? What can I do to change this?
Q. hi there. this question is aimed at guys specifically but ladies feel free to answer too. I am a 21 year old female and i am a university student. i have been struggling with trying to get dates. there are plenty of guys at univerity and i ...
A. 25 July 2011: As marieclaire said, joining societies at Uni is probably the best way to go about meeting people - especially ones with similar interests.
I have no idea how you act but I'll give you my personal opinion; I don't approach girls who are "stuck u... (read in full...)
Do I really have to "treat her mean to keep her keen"?
Q. I'll try and boil it down to basics. There's a girl who I really like due to many reasons; she's extremely attractive but the main being that we connect on many levels. Whenever I talk to her, it seems like we've known each other for ages, not ju...
A. 21 July 2011: Thanks for the replies, it's kinda clearing up in my head a bit (I think).
Just to clarify a few things; me treating her well is not an act, I do it with all women, including those I'm not trying to court - the only difference being I put in a lit... (read in full...)
Girl I care about is in a destructive relationship.
Q. Hey everyone, I'm back again. There's a girl in my school, a very close friend of mine who I like, more than ever before right now. I made a topic back in November about her: http://www.dearc...
A. 8 April 2011: Thank you, that was what I think I needed, though it may not exactly be what I'd hoped for, it was what I think I knew deep down. Don't worry, I wouldn't dream of abusing the trust I have as a friend to try and get them to split up and for her t... (read in full...)
I want to date her, so should I tell her my true feelings for her or not?
Q. Hey... Never done this before, asking people I don't know for help =P don't really know how to start... Sorry. Anyways, I'm 16 and have had girlfriends before - though not from my school. The reason being, the embarrassment if I'm told "no" which ...
A. 21 November 2010: Thank you everybody, particularly the second response.
I think that's what I was heading for anyways one way or another. But my problem is, what if
a) I get deadlocked in the "friend zone"?
b) She decides I haven't made any moves so don't l... (read in full...)
Can you find true love in your mistress? should I leave my wife and marry her?
Q. i have been dating my mistress for 3 years. we decided that its time to take the next step. i am in the middle of a project abroad that will be completed in march 2011. i decided to file for a divorce then. in three years we have seen good times an...
A. 21 November 2010: As a child of a man who did something like this, I can tell you that you will never even be able to comprehend the suffering your children or wife will go through.
I remember being told she was just a "friend" and that all they did was go to th... (read in full...)
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