How can I stop being so angry?
Q. Few weeks ago split from a yr long r.ship. We are in our 30's. He had only just split with someone when we met. She caused him a few probs but after couple of months we heard no more. Or so i thought. I didnt ever feel i could trust this guy but my ...
A. 25 July 2007: Find your happy place. Look at your children, think happy thoughts FOR them. Then realize that you probably saved them from a worse fate. The guy was a dishonest critten and that's not your fault. Trusting someone is a really hard thing to do but ... (read in full...)
I found out he cheated on me, so now i check his phone and emails.
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 and half years. i recently found out that he cheated on me in the first year we went out whilst out with friends. i felt really hurt by this and he didnt understand why as it was so long ago. but i feel like i ...
A. 25 July 2007: Cheating is cheating. If he can convince you that "It was so long ago" What will be try next. The trust was violated and should be addressed accordingly. Follow your heart. If it says, dump him. Then do so and moove on. Don't allow him to downplay ... (read in full...)
Am I being twitchy??
Q. I really like girls, women, a lot. Lots of them smile at me or look at me when I'm out in public - but I can't look at them. For instance, when I notice a beautiful girl on the train, I will desperately try to keep myself from looking at her - lo...
A. 2 July 2007: I'm married to an absolyte knock out of a woman. Half Peurto Rican half Mexican. I began the relationship 7 years ago by being completely honest.
I look at other women. Even if she's with me. She looks too. I've caught her. By the same token, i... (read in full...)
I help people as much as I can, but I am not happy--any advice?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 7 months tomorrow and I don't feel happy at all! Since I have been going out with my girlfriend she has cheated on me 3 times and I even caught her giving one of my "friends" a blowjob in a toilet of a discotech. ...
A. 2 July 2007: Wait. Let me start over. Your profile thimg say's that you're between 18-21 and you state that she's 6 years younger than you. That would make her anywhere form 11 to 15 years old.
Here's your Whole problem. Stop dating kids.... (read in full...)
I help people as much as I can, but I am not happy--any advice?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 7 months tomorrow and I don't feel happy at all! Since I have been going out with my girlfriend she has cheated on me 3 times and I even caught her giving one of my "friends" a blowjob in a toilet of a discotech. ...
A. 2 July 2007: My initial comment was going to be "Your an IDIOT" but I checked your age. Normal.
OK, MOVE ON. You are guilty of lying to yourself in believing that she is worth a relationship.
Damn... three times. I'm not even disgusted at her, you're the ... (read in full...)
I can't help making myself look like an idiot.
Q. I liked this boy for ages, I was like in love with him. I slept with him and things didn't work out. After that he started seeing another girl, but she had a boyfriend. He found and stopped seeing her--now she is seeing the boy I like. To get ...
A. 2 July 2007: Admitting it is half of the problem.
(I can't help myself--I'm going to make myself look like an idiot. )
You already have the answers just trust yourself.
BTW... sex to get back at someone????????? Yup, give this guy a free roll in the h... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty about leaving my vulnerable partner???
Q. My wife of many years has a drink problem that has seriously damaged our lives in many ways and caused our only child aged 19 to leave home. I also left and have now fallen for a widowed old friend, we make each other very happy. Divorce is on the ...
A. 2 July 2007: I'm assuming that you have atleast 19 years of history. That's a lot. Personally, I like it better when people ask for advise BEFORE there's an out that involves another relationship.
I think it would be unfair of us to opine with as little d... (read in full...)
I had oral sex with a guy I'm not going out with. Now I'm getting called a slag! What should I do?
Q. hello, recently iv been doing oral sex with a boy im not going out with. we havnt had sex but people think im easy and a slag. i dont no wht to do i realy like him. please help. do you think what i am doing is wrong?...
A. 22 June 2007: This is why you need to wait a lot longer before engaging in this sort of activity.
How did they find out. Were you bragging? Was he? Look up the word discretion. If you did it so that you would have something to tell then you did it for the wron... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he'll wait for sex; I'm ready now but am I too young?
Q. heya :D im a muture 14 y/o and iv got a boyfriend 16 y/o .. we both want sex but am i too young? hes a honest guy .. he sed hed wait if i wern`t ready but im 95% sure i want to .. (he sed hed use a condom ) what do i do? i dont wanna wait ....
A. 22 June 2007: The longer you wait, the fewer regrets you'll have. You may be a mature 14 year old but you are only 14 and only have 14 years of life experience.
There are sooooo many things that you will learn in your teen years about sex and relation... (read in full...)
I want to watch my girlfriend have sex with my male friend
Q. Should I let my best mate sleep with my girlfriend while I watch? Hello everybody, My name is Jonathan. My girlfriend and I have been 8 years together and we're both 28 years old. For the past year or so I've been having this vivid fant...
A. 22 June 2007: There's a name for this. Swinging. Don't be afraid of your feelings. Have faith in your gf.
Too many people are afraid to express themselves. Go to a souple of swinger sites, real swinger sites and ask those that participate. They're really o... (read in full...)
Any idea on how to word an email to him?
Q. i'v been on 2 dates with a guy who is 10 yrs older... he is not my type, but i thought it would be fair to give him a chance as he really likes me and has done for a while..... after the second date he became less shy and we were getting on ...
A. 22 June 2007: Try honesty. Just say that you have another date. If he asks with whom, tell him. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. If nothing else, it helps you to maintain a clean conscience.
If I were a girl in your situation, I'd question the friends ... (read in full...)
My bf won't show me his penis after a year's realtionship! Any ideas as to what's wrong?
Q. Right..I've bin havin sex with my b/f for a few months now..when he "broke me in" it was really difficult..it took us at least 4-5 attemps..he has done probably everything imaginable to my body but even after a YEAR! he refuses to show me his penis ...
A. 22 June 2007: She didn't say that it was without her consent.
Seriously, he may be using something other than his penis on you because he's ashamed of his own. They make extentions that slip right over the penis so if you didn't touch it or aren't very expe... (read in full...)
I told him to go; I wasn't serious but he really left!
Q. I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. we have spent everyday together over that time except a week over xmas.we never argue we are the best of friends and lovers we are so close. i have issues with my weight and i occasionally take it out on him ...
A. 22 June 2007: You need help. Sorry for being blunt but physical violence should never be allowed in a relationship. If you have low self asteem and there's someone there for you, you should be happy and appreciate that.
Telling him to leave and not meaning ... (read in full...)
I love him but he doesn't seem to care either way
Q. i have split up with my partner two days ago because of the way he treats me. we don't live together, however, i know his not cheating on me. he dose not come down to see me, instead he tells me to come down to see him all the time. he has said some ...
A. 22 June 2007: Please do not confuse love with your desire to be with someone. Look out for yourself in this situation. Find someone that consistantly makes you happy and is as giving of the relationship as your are. He's playing you. He gets what he wants then he ... (read in full...)
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