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... Send *hilip@u a private message | | | *hilip@u's profile:hi my name is philip and I am gay. I was in a 4 month rel-ship but that ended, and thank goodness. It was just bad dot dot dot.
Any ways i think anyone can give advice but the question is, is the person going to take the advice or not. i can give good advice. All I have is my experience from my own life. lot of bad and good experiences. i guess thats how every body is though. I really like to give advice so thats why i am here.
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How do I get him to feel safe with me and open up after what happened?
Q. My lover of three years was raped a month ago and given HIV. Now, he's even more depressed and withdrawn, he refuses to come near me, I tried to touch his hand and he flinched, he has flashbacks...this is seriously affecting our relationship. He's...
A. 14 July 2010: maybe you guys should move to a new place. i mean living in the same place after that wouldn't be good especially if he have flash backs of that day remembering what he did hrs before, what he could have done differently. idk might be an idea? it ... (read in full...)
Gay, but I cannot be.
Q. Hi everyone, I am a 26 male profisionnal successfu engineer and i still virgin because i think i am Gay and I actully have this feeling when I was 10 or 11, I only attracted sexually to men and I feel making sex with women is uncomfortable and i ha...
A. 14 July 2010: to Marry, to me means comitment. why marry some-one you dont want to be with. but if you love them and want both a sexual and social rel-ship go for it. Some ppl that marry have sex with other ppl together 3 somes, why not find someone that wouldn't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had too much fun without me...
Q. Hi aunts. I have a little problem and I don't know where to go at this point. Well as we all know...yesterday was the 4th of July. So me, my boyfriend and a couple of friends and family went to see fireworks and stuff. It was a fun ...
A. 14 July 2010: In the future go with him and stay for 3 hrs, and say hay its late lets go. Ask him if he can cut back on the drinking, its ok to get a buzz, but i mean to start groping ppl, isn't right. and if he did have sex he really couldn't resist the person, ... (read in full...)
Descison about sexual experimentation!
Q. I have a big choice to make. I really do love girls but I only like to masturbate to gay porn. Now the opportunity for me to try and experiment with another guy has arisen, and I need to know if you guys think I should explore my sexuality and ...
A. 14 July 2010: i personally experiment at an early age and I had a lot of guilt for yrs. in that time i was doing it i was actually fine it was after i stopped when i got the guilt feeling.
but i would still consider doing it if i were you.
maybe if you got c... (read in full...)
I have found a really great guy but I still have feelings for my engaged friend
Q. The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung ...
A. 14 July 2010: i wouldn't say he is off limits until she's walking down an the ile in a white dress.
I would see if he does have any feelings for you before walking away.
is he bi/straight
but i wouldn't say anything to the new guy about how you still have f... (read in full...)
How to tell my family I'm gay?
Q. Help needed... theres only one way to put this question but... how do i tell my family that i'm gay? advice much appreciated thanks...
A. 14 July 2010: I came out last yr. in oct. I only told my mom though because my dad really doesn't like gay ppl. my mom new for a while, well i was seeing a guy and it was obvious we were going out. but i was at his house a lot like 70% of my time was over there. ... (read in full...)
Coping with being gay at 13
Q. I'm gay and I'm going crazy I have no one to talk to and I don't even know a gay person for advice I can't even go to a therapist my mind keeps on fantasising thinking about men's six packs and privates i thought it was a good thing when I admitted ...
A. 14 July 2010: I would say write it down in your email. like go into contacts click onto one and where it says there contact info ease it. and just save it under rough drafts. Thats what i have done and still do. And remember to be logged out when you leave the ... (read in full...)
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