Should I have sex with him? I told him I love him.
Q. I am a 16 year old girl, I'm a virgin, and I have been in love with a guy for 6 years. I know he has never felt the same, but we are planning to have sex together. I trust him completely, and I feel so ready to be with him. He's nearly 19, and all ...
A. 27 September 2008: The short answer is NO. Do not have sex with this boy.
Its good that you are thinking about it and weighing your options... However, I think you are getting too wrapped up in the "does he love me" thing. If it were me I wouldn't have sex with him... (read in full...)
Should I Marry Someone That I Am Not 100% attracted to and may become fat in the future?
Q. Should I marry a woman that I am not entirely attracted to and might get fat in the future? She is one of my best friends and has everything I want in a woman... but I can tell she does not work-out enough to maintain a healthy body and always finds ...
A. 27 September 2008: Everyone will gain weight with age. There is nothing to say that the supermodel of today won't be at least 20 lbs. heavier later. That is an unrealistic criteria for marriage.
It sounds like there is chemistry lacking here. Chemistry is a big th... (read in full...)
2 days after first time (unprotected) sex, I feel pain while on the toilet and can see a tiny faint bit of blood when I wipe myself, could this be an STD? How can I help the pain?
Q. Okay am worried. I lost my virginity 2 days ago. I'm on the pill, n we didnt use a condom. well now wen i go to the toilet it really hurts so bad that i want to cry and i been needing the toilet more often. also wen i wipe myself there is a tiny f...
A. 27 September 2008: I know it sounds preachy, but you should always wear a condom to protect yourself for casual sex. If he won't, insist. Its better than contracting something that will kill you. If that means no sex then you really didn't want it that bad anyway. I'm ... (read in full...)
He and I have been dirty texting, but he's getting married soon to a good friend of mine and I have a boyfriend! Need help getting him out of my head!
Q. Dear Aunts i am in a bit of a pickle i am with someone for the last four years, but a few months ago me and a male friend who is getting married soon to a good friend of mine started flirting with me, we have always got on really well we have bee...
A. 27 September 2008: I understand that the attention from your friend's fiance is stimulating and seductive. However, he is not acting like a committed partner to a relationship he is about to cement before God. He may be reaching out to you to prove that he's still ... (read in full...)
Is he still attracted to me even though he and I have different views on porn?
Q. I share a computer with my bf. He left the computer on one day, and when I got home decided I would go on and check my email... I looked in the search bar and saw he was looking up porn. (He forgot to delete the search bar.) I felt insecure like ...
A. 27 September 2008: I have been where you are. Most ladies (in my experience) who do have problems with porn usually take a moral stance (its degrading, which it is by definition-- sexual display for the pleasure of the viewer) and/or it makes them feel insecure about ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend an internet skank?
Q. My girlfriend and I occasionally chat to eachother when we are at our parent's houses via MSN, now I have about 10-15 girls on my MSN contacts list and when she found out she went nuts at me even tho all of them but her were blocked, she told me ...
A. 27 September 2008: Let her know that as soon as she deletes or blocks her "questionable" male contacts that you will reciprocate in turn. It is not fair for her to complain when she is doing the same thing.
It has been my experience (I agree with Emily) that the... (read in full...)
My husband is texting a female colleague frequently, he says it's work-related. Should I be suspicious?
Q. hi, my partner keeps texting a woman from his work, i have seen his phone bill and he has replied 250 texts in one month to her, should i be suspicious? he says he was only asking for her help at work when he didn't know how to do something....
A. 27 September 2008: I would be concerned, but not overly obsessed. Alert him to the fact that it worries you. Let him know that the frequency is the concern and not the subject matter.
Ask him to limit his texts to her if he can. If he says that it is necessar... (read in full...)
I believe my husband is afraid to stand up to his ex and concentrate more on our family.
Q. I have three children, and two step children. MY ex is out of the picture and we have zero contact with him. I moved in with my now husband three years ago, and since his two daughters and ex-wife make my life hell. I moved in to the house that he s...
A. 27 September 2008: 1.) I don't think its fair that he made you share the history and ghosts of his first family's house. You should ask him honestly if you could relocate to a house with less history and bad vibes. It may be comforting for him to retain a little bit ... (read in full...)
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