Are we still together?
Q. my girlfriend and i just recently had a discussion about where we were standing in our relationship. she told me that for a reason she can't really explain she sees me as more of a friend than as a boyfriend, more so than she has in previous months. ...
A. 17 June 2010: you're welcome, hope i helped. gather the courage, like she did, to talk to her honestly, with tactful but blunt words. stringing you along if she is unsure is disrespectful, but she may be too torn between her head and her heart. but you can't have ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about how close they are?
Q. Ok so i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. He has always had this bestfriend that is a girl. They have been in school together since elementary. But they hooked up more than once in high school. Well lately he has been talking so ...
A. 15 June 2010: um, yes. i would be very concerned. however, deal with it with dignity and save face.. ask him about it one more time, bring up what you've seen and if he denies it, then ask him if you can talk to her. if he ISN'T cheating, and they are just close, ... (read in full...)
Is my husband lying about having affairs?
Q. Okay, straight forward, here it goes...Husband and I have been together for 5 years...Where he worked there was a woman who would come over to the house when we had barbeques and stuff...fine. She came over with her boyfriend at the time once, ...
A. 15 June 2010: i would encourage what you are thinking, getting a PI. you may want to do it as soon as possible, as after she leaves it may not be necessary anymore. a PI is a good idea, because if he IS cheating, this evidence can be used in court during a ... (read in full...)
I'd like tips on how to make up with him.
Q. I was hanging out with this guy off and on for 3 yrs. We never but a label on what we were. I mean it was like we were bf and gf. Anyhow he's mad at me and not talking 2 me now. We've been through this before him getting mad and not talking 2,but ...
A. 15 June 2010: sounds like drama. don't say things you don't mean, especially using threats to hold the relationship hostage. he may not want to make up with you, and i don't blame him. but it also sounds like, from the beginning, this wasn't serious enough to ... (read in full...)
Is 18 too young to buy the sex toy called a "bullet"?
Q. Is 18 too young to buy a bullet? As in the sex toy. I feel like dildos and vibrators are for much older women - but I've never had an orgasm :(...
A. 15 June 2010: dildos and vibrators are for any women old enough to buy them :) i say go for it! i've never thought they were for older women, just women.... (read in full...)
I can't deal with him leaving me , so I call him constantly!
Q. im 16. have been with this guy for 1 and a half years and we have had sex alot of times. now, he have abondoned me. i feel so lost and awful. i try to resist myself from calling him but i cant. i keep calling him and he's giving me cold treatment. i ...
A. 15 June 2010: it's easier to let things go when you understand what happened as a lesson for later on. go over in your mind how you met, how you felt together, the sex you had, and how he left you- did you love him? did he really love you? did you have a feeling, ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cheating!
Q. Hi Everyone. Am so sad, confused, annoyed and upset. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Am 21 years old and he is 29. We are great together, we enjoy each others company but there is an obstacle that is bringing our relation...
A. 15 June 2010: xanthic is absolutely right. i have been with men like this... and here's my two cents.
he is definitely insecure, perhaps you know why, either by his appearance, age, achievements, or sexual prowess. whatever it is, or whatever experien... (read in full...)
Are we still together?
Q. my girlfriend and i just recently had a discussion about where we were standing in our relationship. she told me that for a reason she can't really explain she sees me as more of a friend than as a boyfriend, more so than she has in previous months. ...
A. 15 June 2010: this is my interpretation of her thoughts and feelings during what you have told me, to explain women a little more...
you are phenomenal. men like you, able to handle and understand true honesty without emotional backfire, are a rarity! a woman ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and i'm still really jelouse when he goes out with his best friend who i don't trust.. i know this is pushing us apart how do i learn to stop being so jelous and trust my man?...
A. 15 June 2010: there are several things to know before answering this question, so i'll pose them for you:
has your boyfriend ever cheated on you? is he loving toward you, cares about how you feel? do you trust him?
has this girl been friends with him longer,... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I need space without hurting his feelings?
Q. Dear cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and we've become extremely dependant on eachother. We're with eachother 24\7 and if we're not, we constantly text. But now i feel like, if i've text him just to say hi or whatever, he'll strike u...
A. 15 June 2010: young love is great love, fantastic love. it sets in course what we learn about love, and how we interact with someone we care for so deeply. valuable, hard lessons to learn!
time and space for yourself is essential in any healthy relation... (read in full...)
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