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Which man do I choose? Passion or security?

Q.   Hello! I have to make the biggest decision of my life and I need some advice! I love two very different guys that have different things to offer and I don’t know who to choose. With Guy # 1 I will be able to stay home with my future kids and be the ...

A.   8 November 2013: I think you should chose neither. You clearly "love" guy #1 for the materialistic assets he can provide for you. If you truly loved guy #2, moving and working wouldn't bother you as much as they seem to. ... (read in full...)

Do I continue to try with the 19 year old reluctant girl? Or try with this amazing girl I just met?

Q.   I met this girl, we dated for a month and it was all going so slow it annoyed me. She didn't let me kiss her until after a couple of dates and it was not even a kiss it was a peck. When I tried giving her a real kiss she got so tense I stopped. An...

A.   24 December 2011: If your already having sex with another girl then what exactly did girl A mean to you? To me, it seems as if you wanted to get in her pants more than anything. Great things take time. ... (read in full...)

Six years and I'm no longer sexually attracted to my boyfriend

Q.   Hi! Okay. I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of all of high school, we are 3rd years in college and 700 miles away. I have come to the recent revelation that I am no longer sexually attracted to him. I have told him this and he still wants to try to ...

A.   28 October 2011: End the relationship. I was in the exact same situation as you and unfortunatly you will most likely never find him attractive again. Its sad, but relationships do not work unless there is some form of attraction. Be honest with him, tell him how ... (read in full...)

Me and my ex were not really over, until now. This hurts so much

Q.   Im a young female who came out of a serious relationship a year ago. it wasnt the best relationship by any means, many arguments and some awful times, but as stupid as it may sound, we just loved each other. so much. maybe too much as we just ...

A.   14 September 2011: I have been in your situation, with the bad relationship and having a hard time letting it go. Its tough, especially when you care about him...or at least you think you do. I dated my ex for five years and I think we both could admit that the only ... (read in full...)

I got back with my ex but its not working out

Q.   Dear agony aunts, I'm really desperate for advice. This situation has kept me awake at night and I don't even have the guts to tell friends or family about my predicament. 3 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We'd been dating for 3 years...

A.   23 August 2011: I never really understood the question in your post but I will put in my two cents. If I were you, I would end what you have with your boyfriend (ex). If he isnt 100% into the relationship, its not going to work (obviously). Guys that cant mak... (read in full...)

Why do some women feel so bad if their man watches porn?

Q.   I ask this question as I'm fed up seeing questions about porn coming up frequently and women complaining about their men watchin it. I'm 26, I've had 3 serious relationships and each man has loved to watch porn. Sometimes I've watched it with the...

A.   21 August 2011: Because everyone is different and believes in different things. Simple enough...... (read in full...)

He's changed, but always talks me out of breaking up with him.

Q.   i met my boyfriend wen i was 13. weve been together ever since with alot of breakups which didnt even last an hour. since he's come back from a boys holiday hes been acting really different.. its an effort to get him to even kiss me on the lips.. he ...

A.   11 August 2010: First of all, he is loving the attention you are giving him. BACK OFF! Give him space, let him do his own thing. Work on yourself and do things for YOU! Stay busy to keep your mind off of him. When he sees that you are not there for him and readily ... (read in full...)

How I can get my boyfriend to respect me more?

Q.   Hey guys I've been struggling with this for a while.. My boyfriend doesnt respect me. Its hard because I moved in with him a while ago and due to some circumstances I have nowhere else to live. The other day he posted about 9 posters of girls...

A.   26 July 2010: CaringGuy is right. He is not going to change. I would leave the relationship. No girl deserves to be treated like that and if you want something better the only person who can change that is you. Leave him, he sounds like scum! I could not i... (read in full...)

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