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writes: I'm a 21 year old female and never been kissed. But there's this guy, we've gotten really close lately. And I really, really like him. Last night he tried to kiss me like 10 times and I just couldn't do it. I just kept moving my head away. I was too scared to kiss him. I've never kissed anyone ever. So I'm scared to death I won't do it right. What is wrong with me? And now I'm afraid he's upset with me. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Nyx  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 First things first - do not worry about getting all the movements down perfectly. Most people MESS up their first time, and have done stupid things like bite the other person's lip, have their braces caught in together, miss the mouth completely, etc.
If your nerves are still jittery, and you'd seriously want some practice beforehand, as stupid as this idea sounds, try kissing the thumb and first finger of your clenched fist:
(here's a picture to demonstrate what it looks like...)
http://www.karate-made-easy.com/images/karate-clenched-fist-sideview.jpg
Attempt this with the easiest, slowest kissing moves first.
For more kissing techniques and tips, check out this site, or google "how-to-kiss".
http://www.virtualkiss.com/
Best Wishes,
Nyx
PS - I agree with SHANDY POP - let him lead you on first, and if he does it too quickly, harshly, much tongue, etc. be sure to tell him what type of kiss you prefer. For beginners, I'd recommend the soft and slow ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Get your bloke to kiss you first then its plain sailling from there. There is nothing more sexy and sensual than kissing, it really is fantastic. Don't let nerves spoil it. Relax, then kiss his face all over and move in slowly for his lips and then it all should fall into place. Go for it.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): if its the first time you get very nervous i was really really really nervous that i wouldnt do it right, as my partner had done it before and i havnt, but one i did it felt really nice and my nerves went away straight away, after that first time i love doing it feels really nice, but yea the first time will be really hard for you,some people just stop when its there first kiss, all my body just stopped and i didnt know what to do so i just followed what my partner did and it happend ok..
Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Let's face it, the more you run away from this the harder it's going to be. You can't live like this forever. Go for it; everybody's nervous on their first time but after that nerve racking first time it's a load of fun.
Instead of concentrating on how to do it, concentrate on having fun with your man.
Nobody's perfect first time round so get on with it and have fun. Then the times after that will be something to look forward to. Plus; if this man really respects you then he won't tease you if you are a bad kisser anyway :-D
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