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He is the man of my dreams and we share a bed together, but he will not have sex with me. Any and all advice is needed.

Q.   I use to think I knew everything but this time I am so confused and in desperate need of help. I am a gay male who has met the man of my dreams, someone who is sweet loving, responsible and I absolutely adore him. There is no doubt in my mind that ...

A.   5 October 2012: I understand it's hard for you to sleep right next to the man you love and want to spend your life with, when he won't make love to you, it must suck and then you start doubting yourself and/ or his feelings. You should try to find the right time ... (read in full...)

Is lack of physical attraction a valid reason to break up with someone?

Q.   My boyfriend isn't attractive to me. I'm not implying that he's ugly or that other people might not find him good looking but I don't. He's a good person and treats me well and we're getting to that age where we're thinking about serious commitme...

A.   19 September 2012: If you don't feel sexually attractive to him you should considered telling him before it's to late and years pass living a lie. Obviously sex is important to him so you will only hurt his feelings every time you'll say no. And you will feel bad if ... (read in full...)

How can I make him realize he wants me?

Q.   my ex and i broke up a few months ago after being together for two years. weve texted occasionally, but nothing serious. i want him to be in my life like he was before and don't know how to get to the point where he would realize that i'm the person ...

A.   26 August 2009: What i am about to tell you is tricky and risky at the same time but 95 % works... !st never show you are desperate, you will only make him make fun of you and act all whatever in front his friends...Don't let him get the feeling he is something ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to break uo with me. How can I stop her?

Q.   My girlfriend of 7 months wants to break-up, because I love her, but she doesn't love me. She says she, "wants to stop hurting me". What can I do!?...

A.   25 August 2009: You got to wake up!!! Stop leaving a dream... Live your life instead... if she wants to brake up with you then better for you, cause shell be the one missing out ;)! The same night you break up i say go have a party out with your friends. Drink and ... (read in full...)

I want him to be more romantic!

Q.   I have been in this relationship for 8months and a bit and i feel like i do so much stuff for him. latly i have felt so unappreciated and like i dont exist around his friends. its not like him to do this. so i asked him if he could treat me better ...

A.   25 August 2009: Girl, show him that you do exist!!! Where some new underwear, not fully covered lets say.. and plus when you go out with his friends some sexy beautiful clothes that will shock everyone wouldn't hurt!!! If his friends notice you than for sure he ... (read in full...)

She doesn't believe a word I say

Q.   ok... I have a question im so in love with this one girl and me and her have dated before and our relationship went downhill simply cuz she lost trust in me and now she claims she doesnt like me anymore but there have been signs to show that she ...

A.   25 August 2009: Woman can't never get enough... even if you do the most craziest things and you sacrifice a lot of things for her she'll always look at anything bad you do.. So if you're going to give a shot at blowing her mind... you Got to give it all....or give ... (read in full...)

Too big of a distance to overcome?

Q.   Hey, Im a girl from Europe and I really need help. I have been talking to a guy through msn and we got to love each other, though we have never met, because he lives in the USA. He told me to ask him anything I dont know and anything I want to know, ...

A.   22 August 2009: Things are not so good, sorry to say that.. if you saw you were feeling something for this person, you should had let go in the beginning.. im sorry but im going thru the same thing... i leave in greece and the person i love lives in new york... i ... (read in full...)

Do I tell her how I feel, or do I just wait for her?

Q.   I'm a 20 year old guy, and i think i am in love with a 17 year old girl, I have known her all my life but just realised how beautiful and how nice her personality is. I sent her a message the other day telling her how i felt but the next day i sent ...

A.   22 August 2009: If you have known her all your life.. then she must know its hard for you to express your feelings... dont forget to let her know that... so she could see how much youll do for her...... (read in full...)

They were just kids! Do you think the kiss was wrong?

Q.   Back in 2000 I saw my niece who was 11 years old kiss a 6 year old boy. It was mutual but she has recently come to me and said that she cant believe that she did it. She is 21 now she and said she has never been with anyone younger than her and ...

A.   22 August 2009: Tell her she was only 11 years old... she'll do plenty of more crazy stuff in her life that she might regret. But that is life.. you try stuff and then you wonder if it was right or not.. well something made her kiss the boy and by that i mean a ... (read in full...)

When he holds me all I can think of is his betrayal. Is breaking up the answer?

Q.   ok so i gess the best way to ask for your help is to just tell you the story. iv been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and for the first 9 months i wasnt aware of any problems between the two of us. there was a constant bother from his ex but ...

A.   22 August 2009: Just think of this... when he was doing the other girls.. when he was doing.. well you know the actions and moves... anyway when he was sleeping with them was he thinking of you???? Where did his love go that moment...??? just disappear??? Its not ... (read in full...)

I'm feeling insecure after giving birth and our sex life is dieing. Please help!

Q.   I'm 22yrs old and my fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years on 10/24/09. We also have a almost 3year old daughter. Since I had her I feel insecure about my body and only want to have sex w/ the lights off. He tells me that he's ...

A.   22 August 2009: If he truly loves you he won't give you up...you have to make sure he's even worth it... than of course if he is you should try to spice things up not for him but for you. I always its never to late to lit the fire up. If you dont like the lights on ... (read in full...)

I'm crazy about her but she's married! She says she feels 'something' but is commited to her marrige. What can I do?

Q.   I'm a single guy in my thirties. Last year i met this great woman at a place i don't go to very often. I asked her out as i thought she was lovely and amazing. She refused as she's married. A couple of months ago, i met with her again at the s...

A.   22 August 2009: You poor man.. you have falling in love with this person... you misery has begun. Yes you love her and every time you see her your hearts beets like crazy. You can't stop going to that place because you are afraid that she might pass one day and you ... (read in full...)

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