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writes:I'm 22yrs old and my fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years on 10/24/09. We also have a almost 3year old daughter. Since I had her I feel insecure about my body and only want to have sex w/ the lights off. He tells me that he's getting board with our sex life cuz its always the same. How can I spice things up for him and I ? I think that if things dnt start to change I'll lose him. Any advise is good advise. Thanx !!!
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reader, nightwalker +, writes (22 August 2009):
 If he truly loves you he won't give you up...you have to make sure he's even worth it... than of course if he is you should try to spice things up not for him but for you. I always its never to late to lit the fire up. If you dont like the lights on then you dont need them on. Open some candles.. and after a few times try to put some more.. this way you could feel ok with the lights on after...You could check some websites up for some tricks...porn is not a bad thing when you use for good reasons... you could use whipped cream, fruits, chocolate, stuff you could eat off him and on places very important lets say for him. Believe me he'll love it and itll be tastier for you. Buy some new underwear, or "toys"... There are so many stuff you could try... Just know one thing...first YOU must try to be comfortable with YOUR SELF... if you want someone else to... ;)
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