My bf is usually sweet, but lately he's really quite mean to me!
Q. I am 16 years old and have been with my boyfriend of 14 years old for over a year. He constantly tells me he loves me and I really do love him. Most of the time he is really sweet and would probably do anything for me but recently he's been acting ...
A. 27 July 2005: Talk to him about it, I speak from experience, he probably doesn't even realize he's doing it, and if he truly cares about you he will make himself stop, but trust me... talk.... (read in full...)
My partner cheated and it just adds to our troubles...
Q. My partner has cheated on me and told me all about it. We only buried our still born child ten weeks ago. I don't know what to do....
A. 27 July 2005: Times of despair can mess with a persons mind, the only thing I can think to do would be to sit down and talk about it.... (read in full...)
A guy is interested in me, but I'm really shy and don't know if I should go out with him...
Q. I'm 15 and I've got a dating problem. I like this guy who says he loves me, and we've already dated back in 7th grade. He writes me awesome love letters and gives me gifts. I like him and really want to go back out with him, but now I'm really shy. ...
A. 27 July 2005: I don't know what to say other than go for it! Take a chance, if it doesn't work, you've only lost time, and there is always time! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My girl broke up because she swears she can "feel it in her gut" that I cheated, but I didn't!
Q. I am not sure what to do! I am real sad! My girlfriend told me that she can NEVER trust me and therefore broke up with me. She keeps accusing me of having cheated on her, but I NEVER did! She knew when we met that I have a very friendly personal...
A. 26 July 2005: Tell her plain and simple that you wouldn't trade what you have with her for all the "one night stands in the world", but you have to make her believe you love her and only her. Good luck!... (read in full...)
It wasn't until 5 months after we broke up that I realised I want my ex! Why now?
Q. Hi, I finished with my girlfriend of 18 months in February after feeling it had run its course. She was totally in love with me and wanted to move in together but I just didn't feel the same and felt it was the best for both of us to end it. She ...
A. 26 July 2005: Sometimes things in life aren't easy, but you have to struggle through anyways. You know the saying "Only fools fall in love" well I think it should be "Only love makes fools". We may not be happy with what we've done but we've done them ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend rather spend time with his guy friends, when I'm right there on his street?
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, which I think isn't very long. We live in the same street but yet he never has time for me. Sometimes I think he's gay because he never leaves his guy friends. When I complain about it all he does is ...
A. 25 July 2005: I am a guy that has done like him before, and I just got dumped for it... so one piece of advice, if you still have alone time with him, so be it, he'll come around, I promise. I would trade anything for my girlfriend back, if he truly cares for you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's family doesn't want him to see me because I was raped!
Q. Hi, I need help. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and I was raped about a month ago by an ex at a party. Ever since, we have had problems and fights every day and I can't stop crying because my boyfriend's family wants not...
A. 14 July 2005: Firstly, if his family won't have anything to do with you because you were taken advantage of remember this, you're dating him, not his family. And about your fighting just tell him at a time when you are calm that you are sorry because you keep ... (read in full...)
If I kiss her, I'm afraid I'm too forward. If I don't, I'm afraid I'm a wuss...
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating about four months and we live about fifty miles apart, but we always see each other when ever possible. I really like her but I don't know if she feels the same way for me. We are always keeping in touch on...
A. 14 July 2005: Ok, the best thing I can tell you, is the next time you go outside just stare into her eyes for a bit, if she starts to breathe heavy, go rigid, etc. "Go in for the kill" but don't do it to forcefully, let her come some of the way too, gently grab ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in the military and he broke it off with me because he has to go abroad...
Q. My boyfriend of 9 months is in the forces and was due to see me at the weekend after being on a training course 300 miles away for 3weeks. He had been ringing and texting me daily saying how much he has been missing me etc. On the night before his...
A. 14 July 2005: Sounds to me that he is looking out for you,(missing your texts) but doesn't want you to get hurt in the long run, or might be afraid that while he is gone it will be too hard to remain faithful. Get a hold of him no matter what, tell him you'll ... (read in full...)
He cheated at least a dozen times, but now my ex wants me back. Do I leave my current boyfriend for him?
Q. I was in a 7 year relationship marred by continuous affairs by my man. I know of at least 12. I lived with him on three occasions but always moved out becuase I found he was cheating. He always came back to me, always said he loved me. I paid...
A. 14 July 2005: First off, as long as your new guy has enough to pay for food, shelter, and transportation the other wordly possesions can wait. Second any guy that would cheat on you a minimum of 12 times doesn't really love you, or else he could try to show it by ... (read in full...)
Why won't my girlfriend hug or kiss me first?
Q. I think that im too overpowering in my realtionship... I'm always the one to start a kiss, or a hug, or anything at all... I feel bad because she never does... I don't know, when we first started going out I told her I wasn't in this relationshi...
A. 14 July 2005: Believe me, I know how it is, but romance her, flirt a little, make those feelings she has come to the top, if you can do that she won't hold back. Hope it helps!... (read in full...)
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