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How do I get up the nerve to talk to her?
Q. i'm a 12 year old boy and i'm going to high school next fall there is a girl in school i really like and someone told me she likes me a little but i just can't the nerv to ask her out...
A. 15 June 2008: do you have friends in common? if you do ask around casually im sure she must have said something to one of your friends. take it slow your in no rush! hang out where you think shell be and make sure you have lots of friends around you both to take ... (read in full...)
All the pregnancy tests were negative, but I have all the symptoms
Q. hiya i didnt see my period for 2 monthes and took all pregnancy tests nd blood test cum back negative but i have all the symtoms.. but now today 15th june i have seen a period but it is very light and im having lodes of pains and feeling faint and ...
A. 15 June 2008: i really doubt that you are pregant but to be sure go and see your doctor again to reasure yourself. as we get older and our bodys change so do our periods and all the syptoms. Are you streesed at all? are you eating well? sometimes these things can ... (read in full...)
I have an embarrassing problem - can you help me?
Q. Okay, this is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me. My girlfriend, of nearly a year, and I experimented with oral sex the other day. She was amazing, I have never felt so much pleasure, but the problem is that I couldn't get, and ...
A. 15 June 2008: this is perfectly normal i promise! you were nervous you wanted to please her, its a lot of pressure for you! was your girlfriend ok about this? have a chat with her if you can im sure shell understand and next time relax its sex if it goes wrong ... (read in full...)
Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy
Q. Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 ...
A. 15 June 2008: look around you you say you have great friends so there most be something amazing about you! Being told these things at that age is really hard to forget and get over but it has made you stronger i can tell from your letter,why have these feelings ... (read in full...)
He wants me to be more touchy. Advice, please?
Q. dear whomeever im about to be 20 and boyfriend is 21,were going on our 3rd month bein together and we are growing inlove with each other everyday, he says he want me to be more touchy with him but im scared to i dont know how to act in a realtion...
A. 14 June 2008: does you new man know about your abusive past? if not talk to him about it hopefully hel understand why you not toucy. its hard to open up and trust again when youve gone through bad relationships trust in yourself that this one is going to treat ... (read in full...)
Teenage girl needs help with social situation....
Q. Hi its me again i like this boy and i think he knows that i like him i was in the pub with my friend on thursday and at the end of the night we all went to the other side of the bar because were all friends and we dated for a week before. An...
A. 14 June 2008: why did you stop dating before? was it his choice or yours? hes probaly scared and shy, asking someone out on a date is scarey! be brave ask him if you can, if not make it clear that your into him and would say yes if he were to ask you out... (read in full...)
I'm praying to get this mental affair out of my mind but I'm still not sure I want to save my marriage as I don't trust my husband. Don't know what to do.
Q. My husband had an affair on our marriage 2 yrs ago I thought I forgave him but in my heart I'm still hurting about it.. The hurt is not trusting him anymore I admit I stayed with him but only because I'm a homemaker haven't worked in over 10 yrs was ...
A. 14 June 2008: first of all you have to remove yourself from this man your attracted to while he is in the picture you cannot work out what you truly want. talk to your husband go for concelling to see if your marriage is worth fighting for. if not then you can ... (read in full...)
She was playing with me. I can't hate her, but she's doing it again
Q. i met with a huge break off..after three years...the moment she ditched me i got to knw that she was playing with my emotions all these days and she had a number of relatinship..though i never had sex with her...we indulged several times into ...
A. 14 June 2008: im sorry that this girl is playing with you. as you know its really not nice. you have to be strong and not answer her calls tell her no politely and firmly that this kind of relationship is not for you, tell her how much she has hurt you then ... (read in full...)
I cannot hide my feelings - what should I do?
Q. In school I've fallen in love with a boy and I always think of him To tell you the truth I told him that I love him..lol.. I know it's funny but IW can't hide my feelings from someone. What do I do next? I just want to know!...
A. 14 June 2008: slow down! theres no need to rush yourll miss out on all the good bits there are to dating and getting to know someone! back off take it slow and wait for him to make the next move! next time you want to blurt something out take a deep breath and ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I don't get pleasured from sex.
Q. I love my bf so much, but I dont get pleasure from sex, at all, why? It's starting to get to me now....
A. 14 June 2008: do you feel ready for sex? how well do you know your boyfreind? do you trust him? do you have any ongoing issues with sex? try to anwer these questions yourself and maybe then you may start to feel relaxed. try talking to your boyfried he maybe ... (read in full...)
Rushed into marriage and we have a child. I feel the chemistry between us is deteriorating.
Q. Hi, I have been married for 3 years, we have a daughter who is one year old. I love my child very much. My problem is I dont have any feelings for my wife. We rushed in during this puppy love period and got married before we actually got t...
A. 14 June 2008: im sorry that you look at your wife like this. when you do its time to get out. by staying yournot doing anyone any good least of all you daughter and wife. you all desevre to be happy. it will be really hard to start with but with help from ... (read in full...)
Cheating - the door
Q. Once apon a time, everything was simple and the courting girls and boys of the world fell in love, married and grew gracefully old together. The modern day differs from this and its harder to find "mr right". Day by day, we go through the cheats, ...
A. 14 June 2008: to stay with a cheat is up to your friend you have to learn that while you can help your friend and offer advice you cannot live her life for her. what is acceptable for her is not to others. just be there for her without judgement when it all comes ... (read in full...)
Cyber-Sex - Cheating Or Not?
Q. This has been on my mind after someone mentioned to me that she had cyber-sex with someone who wasn't her boyfriend without her boyfriend knowing about it. We've all seen or heard about someone (maybe even yourself) participating in cyber-sex, ri...
A. 14 June 2008: its down to the indivdual really. you know your own boundries would you find it actecpable if your boyfriend did it to you? how would you feel? where cyber sex is concerened there is no right or wrong anwser just what you find acceptable! but ... (read in full...)
I have extreme confidence issues when it comes to men. Any ideas of how to overcome this?
Q. so i have serious confidence issues when it comes to men. if i dont know them or are a bit wary of them or even just in an uncomfortable situation. i freeze up. i wont talk, make eye contact or even talk to my girl friends till they've gone. if i...
A. 14 June 2008: sweetie we are all scared when it comes to talking and being alone with a boy but maybe you more than most cause your dad left you, the most influencial man in your life. Try not to be alone with a to start with try to have a friend with you. ... (read in full...)
He wants to be just friends but I want something more. How can I get over him?
Q. Hi everyone, I am in really big trouble. Me and my boyfrien split up couple days ago because he said he is not ready for a relationship he thought he was but he isn't he just wants to be friends, but i love him. At the beginign when he first sa...
A. 14 June 2008: sweetie the best way to get over him is to make plans with your friends go out try to have fun and stop thinking about him! men mature slower than women so its harder for them to make a commitment back off and try to have some fun!!... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex four days after period. Could I be pregnant?
Q. my cycle is not 28 days but it`s not more than 32 days but i had unprotected sex 4 days after my period.am i safe or not....
A. 14 June 2008: probaly not but to be sure go see your gp to confirm. you will be to late to use the morning after pill. buy a pregnacy test in a month and get your confirmation.... (read in full...)
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