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I love my boyfriend, but I don't get pleasured from sex.

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Question - (14 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *inky_Jo writes:

I love my bf so much, but I dont get pleasure from sex, at all, why? It's starting to get to me now.

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

Does your b/f give plenty of foreplay before just diving in there, Men like there b/j's and stuff...Maybe your not getting excited enough before the actual act itself...Do you use toys? And clitoral stimulation is really good before sex,Him going down on you e.t.c Feeling comfortable with your b/f so you can experiment with all kinds of different things is a must sweetheart..To be able to do these things together will turn you and him on....Now if after saying all that and you have tryed everything and you are comfortable then if this is as you said really getting to you go see your doctor.....But try some of the things ive mentioned if you havent hunny if you need a chat message me TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, mum and 1 United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2008):

do you feel ready for sex? how well do you know your boyfreind? do you trust him? do you have any ongoing issues with sex? try to anwer these questions yourself and maybe then you may start to feel relaxed. try talking to your boyfried he maybe just as nervous and unsure as you are. take a break from sex for a while and get to know each other slowly without the added pressure of sex! happy dating!

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