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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone,I am in really big trouble. Me and my boyfrien split up couple days ago because he said he is not ready for a relationship he thought he was but he isn't he just wants to be friends, but i love him. At the beginign when he first saw me he totally fell for me he was at my house solid morning to night 4 two weeks, than he asked me out and we were all happy. met his whole family, they love me and now he says he wants to be friends. We had a talk but all it did was that he was pissed off and hardly even talks to me now, I am being strong and pretend that we are just friend act around him as if we were never been together but it is breaking my heart. I want him back but if he doesn't want to than i need to get over him.So please can someone give me tips on how to get him back but also how to get over him?Please I really need some advice!!! Thank you May x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Hi, first off I am sorry you are feeling down about this...bad news is this won't be the only time this very thing happens to you and with another guy. The good news is there will be another guy. You are both very young and there is really no need to be so serious....he probably does like you very much but doesn't want the responsibility of taking care of your every happiness and wants his own freedom, he is way to young to make a commitment to you and he knows this.....so back off, give him some room and he will probably look you up again, if not just realize all of the above and meet some other nice guys to be friends with and take your mind off him. He isn't the last guy on earth after all, and you may miss out on someone else great to know, by being all closed off and thinking you love him, when you probably are mostly infatuated with him. The difference is that love takes a lot of time and you have to really really know the other person well, not just in a few weeks or even a few months.
Take care of you.
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reader, mum and 1 +, writes (14 June 2008):
sweetie the best way to get over him is to make plans with your friends go out try to have fun and stop thinking about him! men mature slower than women so its harder for them to make a commitment back off and try to have some fun!!
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