How can I stop coming on so strong?
Q. Hey everyone. So I've been posting here for quite a while about all of my struggles with attracting women. I think I may finally realize what's been going on. I come on too strong and over analyze things on pretty much every attempt. It's just who I ...
A. 14 March 2017: So far, you have barely answered my question. In fact, I feel like you've pretty much only callled me a jerk. If I was overly egotistical I wouldn't have the humility to admit that there are times where I do disregard others. And I'm not bragging ... (read in full...)
How easy is it for some men to cheat?
Q. How easy it is for some men to cheat? Do you think my man cheated on me based on this: *He's had sex with approx. 30 girls that I know about... *They are all types of faces and bodies and most of them he says he considers them ugly. (Ma...
A. 14 March 2017: Honestly based on what you've said I don't think you should have started a relationship with this person. His "body count" is 30+! I'm not sure if you knew this beforehand or not but that alone would stop me from pursuing someone. If you two didn't ... (read in full...)
How am I so bad with women?
Q. I'm at a place now where I'm rejected 100% of the time. It's mind boggling how awful I am at attracting women. They're put off my me almost immediately and if they're not, I get their number and they stop talking to me. It takes talent to be this ...
A. 1 March 2017: Hey guys! Thanks for all the answers. To further clarify, I've actually been able to start conversations and get the numbers of a few women I'd say are solid 9s if we're talking looks, hence why I don't believe it's my appearance. It's something I'm ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Women seem scared of me. Haven't been able to set up a date in three years.
Q. I have problems with women and I'm taking time away from dating (or trying to date) until I've found myself, developed confidence, and have a proper view of women in general. I've struggled pretty badly for the past 7 years or so. My previous...
A. 25 April 2016: Thanks, but I'm not looking for the wrong type of woman. I have high standards. It's just me and my behavior. I'm really just becoming sick of myself from it. I'm pretty sure it's just my lack of confidence mixed with strong desire and lack of ... (read in full...)
She's asked me twice to take her to the hospital, but something doesn't seem right!
Q. So this girl I've know for a couple of months has asked me to take her to the hospital now twice in a span of about 4 to 6 weeks. She'll kik me out of the blue telling me to take her but then apparently she turns her phone off because my messages ...
A. 9 June 2015: Thanks guys. The wise side of me and God have been telling me to drop this. My desperation is what's even gotten me this far into this. I really need to calm down, I know. I've wanted a relationship for so long that I've now begun to accept ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to be upset that she won't come out for my birthday meal with family?
Q. IT is my Birthday next week and my family are going for a meal in the evening. Naturally they have invited my girlfriend of three years. She says she doesn't know if she can come because she has plans with her family during the day, and it may put ...
A. 20 May 2015: Yeah, it's normal dude. One thing you can't do is invalidate your own emotions. It's something I've learned and am still working on. I have a friend whom I invited to my birthday dinner yesterday that said they'd try be there but it'd be a bit late. ... (read in full...)
Would telling him I'm going on a date with someone get his attention?
Q. theres a guy i like and would love it if he asked me out but i need to get his attention first. we are friends he said he liked me before but didnt do anything about it we do fun friend flirting that doesnt mean anything asfar as i know ,im too ...
A. 19 November 2014: Don't do that. A lot of guys will think you're playing with them and aren't interested. If you like this guy, you wouldn't put him through that. Just be forward, or if you don't want to do that just see if he makes a move. Don't be afraid to show a ... (read in full...)
My current boyfriend can't seem to stop looking at dirty magazines despite knowing how it makes me feel!
Q. Dear cupid, I have been in my relationship for 16 years. I have 2 kids with this man and 2 from my marriage. My current boyfriend can't seem to stop looking at dirty magazines despite knowing how it makes me feel. I have explained my feelings to him ...
A. 19 November 2014: Pornography addiction can be serious if left unchecked and it seems as though he's at a point where the want to satisfy the addiction is as strong or possibly stronger than his desire to keep all his energy in your relationship. I'd suggest seeing a ... (read in full...)
Is a guy reacting to a girl ignoring him a sign of interest?
Q. When a guy pays more attention to a girl when she ignores him, or doesn't give him as much attention or leaves the area, does that mean he likes her? If the guy seems to be aware of how she feels and seems to react if she's sad, mad or happy, is...
A. 19 November 2014: Could be... I'm not completely sure. You may want to do some digging. See if you can get some sure signs of interest from him. You'll know then.... (read in full...)
We've been tested but my boyfriend doesn't want to use condoms and it worries me!
Q. Hi,I'm a 23yr old female n my boyfriend is 26,we decided to go for an HIV test before we can ingage in sex n the results came back negative,we've been having unprotected sex ever since because even when I suggest we use a condom he tells me he ...
A. 14 November 2013: Hmmm, to me it seems there are only two possible reasons for this. The first being he wants to get you pregnant, the second being he doesn't like how sex with a condom feels to him. Have you suggested Trojan Ecstacy, Lifestyles Skyn, or others of ... (read in full...)
She rejected me and then months later texts me. Is she regretting her decisions?
Q. Hi readers. So this girl I haven't talked to in months (Christmas basically) texted me tonight out of nowhere saying hey. I have a feeling she's bored, or she's reconsidering rejecting me. I don't know. I'm making small talk with her now, but I want ...
A. 11 July 2013: Hello guys, so I've talked to her some more, still small talk and its really been boring. I ended our last conversation by telling her that I was going to bed and haven't talked to her since. I'm feeling like she just wanted to see if she could get ... (read in full...)
| *rBigShot110's friends
These are mutual friends, so *rBigShot110 has
added them and they have added *rBigShot110!
|
