Do co-workers pick up on flirtation or interest between 2 people?
Q. I am a client who goes into a place of business on an occasional basis and I am usually greeted by one particular male employee who is always nice to me. When he told me he was being transferred to another franchise 20 minutes away, he to...
A. 7 November 2014: Clearly he likes you. He may not have said anything, but people are perceptive. It is highly likely that the coworker picked up on it. Men don't usually go around telling their coworkers they like someone. ... (read in full...)
Should I support my husband in reviving a friendship with his ex?
Q. Married a year and this is both our second marriages. I don't have a relationship with my ex other than child related conversations over the phone. My husbands ex is one of his oldest friends. During our courtship she was rude,intrusive and very ...
A. 7 November 2014: Do not support him reviving a friendship with her. She sounds like a manipulative person with bad boundaries. ... (read in full...)
Advice on what a break means.
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. However, out of the blue, she sent a text message asking for a break. She said she didn't want things to end, just a short break. It was not stemmed from a fight and she made it clear she still ...
A. 7 November 2014: A break means different things to different people. Do not buy flowers or even contact her. If she initiated it, she should end it, make the first contact, etc. Buy the flowers after she returns to you. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm being manipulated!
Q. I think I'm being manipulated. My husband's best friend is getting a divorce after 20 years of marriage. His wife was always cold with us. Their visits got rarer and rarer to the point that she stopped coming all together and he visited us alone...
A. 7 November 2014: You have every right to talk to your husband about this. You should just let her know you are not comfortable being involved with this conversation and that you wish her the best of luck. She sounds like a manipulative person. Try blocking her from ... (read in full...)
What kind of person makes this sort of random offer?
Q. I met a man on a train on the way into New York City. He was very helpful as I was asking for directions and he travels often, so we spent about an hour chatting. He gave me his number so he could send me some links and when I texted him to thank...
A. 7 November 2014: Sounds like he's flirting and wants to explore with you. He is attracted to you. Are you attracted to him? Go on some dates, keep your head on, and don't jump into anything serious too fast. Look for red flags but don't miss out on a chance for love ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to set up a fake okcupid profile, what does this mean?
Q. I've been writing to this guy on okcupid for the past 6 months, during which time I was living abroad, and we couldn't meet. When we finally did meet, we had a deep connection. He's introverted, and didn't make any moves on me. Finally, on the ...
A. 7 November 2014: He's probably addicted to validation in the form of responses he gets from the site. The human brain is vulnerable to little dopamine rewards from getting something in your inbox. Maybe he should try something different, like starting a blog or a ... (read in full...)
My high pitched voice is impacting dating and my job interviews
Q. I've always had an extremely high pitched voice. I've gotten used to it, however I realized it's hindering my dating life and finding a job. It doesn't help that I'm very petite either. I graduated with a business major but it doesn't matter how ...
A. 7 November 2014: I think you need to turn it into a strength. You might consider hiring a voice coach. If money is a limiting factor, look online at YouTube and see if there are any videos on voice control. You don't want to be inauthentic, but some tips for ... (read in full...)
I want what's best for my daughter and myself
Q. I was a few months away from getting married when I found out my now ex had been cheating on me with a mutual friend. She was going out with a friend of mine, and my ex and this guy were like brothers. Basically it all came out when her boyfrie...
A. 7 November 2014: I'm so sorry you are going through this. That sounds like such a hard place to be. I think it sounds like part of you would love to have an intact two parent family and you hear him asking for another chance. As a general rule, once someone has ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to take a polygraph?!
Q. Okay so I've been seeing this guy for 10 months, before him I went through a really rough yime after I went through a bad break up with my long term bf, where he cheated. After I did not deal with it well I had dated people and had ended sleeping...
A. 7 November 2014: This will only get much, much worse. Get out now, before you get injured. I feel that is a huge red flag. He will never, ever let it go. He will use it to shame you and it will get more and more abusive. By the way, you are not the only person who ... (read in full...)
Sexless, affectionless, respectless marriage.
Q. I never thought I would be on one of these sites asking people's opinions on personal matters.. but here it comes guys. I have been married for 7 years now. I am 35 year and he is 47. I was married before, to a complete and utter control freak, v...
A. 7 November 2014: Call your local women's shelter. They usually have hotlines for women who are abused. It might escalate. The kids deserve better. You will need to get a safe plan in place and escape when he is not aware of what is going on. Be extremely careful. ... (read in full...)
I am dying for my boyfriends attention.
Q. I know this sounds self-centered, and maybe it is. But I am dying for my boyfriends attention. We do not have a bad relationship, never fight or anything. But he isn't very romantic at all.. I love to cuddle and give gifts and am very interested ...
A. 7 November 2014: It sounds like you are not getting much attention from him even though you openly express your love and affection for him. Guys need space. Sometimes, as hard as it is for us, they distance themselves. I am a woman and I can't fully get into the ... (read in full...)
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