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i love helping people! i've helped people with problems since i was about 7 and im only 13 now!

I live in the UK and have a boyfriend that i love to bits... i dont know where i would be with out him. And i am happy to help people with there troubles with relationships and first kisses etc.

Cheating on Internet sites

Q.   How can I stop my boyfriend from going into porn and the chatting sites? He says he loves me but then again his talking dirty to all this women and lying to them. ...

A.   4 March 2008: tell him how you feel and hopefully all will go well. My boyfriend always does the "if you really love me you will..." im not saying you HAVE to do it because it might make things worse but its an idea... (read in full...)

I have never made out with a girl

Q.   I know this may sound weird to ask but, I've never really made out with a girl. Me and my girlfriend want to try but we both have never done it and don't know how, any help would be greatly appreciated....

A.   4 March 2008: I had my first the other day and when you say "made out" i guess you mean french kiss? (tongues). i didnt have a clue what i was doing but my tongue just moved automatically so dont worry. just go for it :D... (read in full...)

Whats a personal demon?

Q.   Whats a personal demon? Im perparing myself for the worst cuz my ex broke it off last nite sayin he has a personal demon controllin his life and he would explain 2 me in a few days. Well where he works is my local grocery store hes a manager and my ...

A.   4 March 2008: Hmm if some one said a personal demon was controlling their life i would personally think schizophrenia. Give him the offer to talk to you if he ever needs to... (read in full...)

When a guy likes you does he normally sort of not talk to you as much?

Q.   When a guy likes you does he normally sort of not talk to you as much or not sit next to you like he used to or not even stare at you as much cuz i like this guy who really seemed to like me and he used to do these things a lot but now he hardly ...

A.   4 March 2008: Well you probably were sending him signals that you don't like him. So he's not looking at you so he tries to stop liking you. Like i REALLY liked this boy and made him stop phoning me so i would stop liking him as he had a girlfriend maybe he's... (read in full...)

I don't know if I will ever see them again...do I just forget about them??

Q.   Hey! Im 13 years old and there was someone in the old 8th grade who I think liked me and I liked them too. I cant get that person of my mind and was so upset when I wasn't going to the same high-school as them. The last time I saw that person w...

A.   4 March 2008: Hmm this is a toughy. I know EXACTLY how you feel trust me! i had this MASSIVE thing for a boy and he had a gf but he liked me as well as her. But he went to a different school.. but if you have this persons number then ring them or get their email ... (read in full...)

I only met him a couple of times but am totally obsessed...please help.

Q.   I really need some help. I met this guy through his work, and we did have a little flirt, but that was all. He works near where I live and I am completely obsessed with him. I have only met him a couple of times and spoke to him on he phone. T...

A.   4 March 2008: Tell him how you feel. I know im young but I been thinking about this boy for about 5 months now and i told him how i feel about a month or 2 ago and now we are going out, and we are really happy. SO GO FOR IT GIRL!... (read in full...)

Can we still work if our personalities clash?

Q.   wel me and my bf have been together for 5months and we are really happy 2getha!!! But we had a argument the otha nite and we said some things in the moment and he said that our personalities clash and it has made me think whether this is true, an...

A.   4 March 2008: just think to your self, was it anger taking over him, in that case he didnt mean it. And every relationship has an argument but then you can sort out your problems and grow stronger because it ALWAYS happens with me in friendships.... (read in full...)

Recently ingaged and now he's flirting with other women in front of me!

Q.   My fiancée and I are going to get married soon. He like proposed to me a week ago when we were in my favourite restaurant, it was really sweet and I wasn't really expecting it because he had managed to push the ring inside the ice cream so when I ...

A.   4 March 2008: He's probably just making the most of it before he ties the not. Ask him to stop doing it..... (read in full...)

Is he treating me mean to keep me keen?

Q.   Hey there, I know this guy from work, let's call him "C". I've worked with his for just over 18 months. When i started my new job "C" had worked there for about a month and was really quiet, despite this we got really well as i was quite shy to...

A.   4 March 2008: Hmmm, talk to him and say something like "whats wrong with you, you've changed since you've been hanging round with "T" your not the guy i used to be best friends with anymore..."... (read in full...)

I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!

Q.   I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...

A.   4 March 2008: Hmm, i feel soo sorry for you! i know he said he doesnt like living with people but you could have him over on the weekends, then for a week or so then persuade him to move in , you could talk to him about all the good things and stuff. Then it ... (read in full...)

Am I being used just for comfort?

Q.   I feel very lost and lonely in my relationship of 16 months right now. I do believe my boyfriend has commitment problems and sometimes It really does hurt me, considering weve been together for so long and yet I dont think hes over it. Ive never ...

A.   4 March 2008: Sit him down and talk to him about it ONE LAST TIME and ask him what he wants to do to spice up the relationship or you give him some ideas. Go out for the weekend on a romantic holiday and have some private time with him. If they don't work then... (read in full...)

I'm conservative but she wants me to take control. What do I do?

Q.   hi im 26,not really experienced in sex and get very nervous and have no idea what im doing and worry if im doing it wrong. i have a girlfriend over in hongkong,i met her once in december and she stayed with me for 10days and shes coming over later ...

A.   4 March 2008: Dont worry. You could talk to her about it, ask her what she would find a more "interesting" and "exciting" way of doing it. Tell her that you feel shy and un confident about this kind of thing and she will understand and help you out a little bit ... (read in full...)

Am I lying to myself by being in this relationship?

Q.   Hi I posted a question here sometime back. I am 27, dating S 32 for 7 months already. We are happy together but somehow I feel that we want different things. For one, I want to get married and have kids. I'm willing to sacrifice my career to be a ...

A.   4 March 2008: Have a long chat with him about it, maybe he's not ready JUST yet and will change his mind soon. My sister has a boyfriend in Australia and she lives in the UK with me and so far its been going fine and she phones him nearly ever night. Also ... (read in full...)

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