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*ramm
writes:hi im 26,not really experienced in sex and get very nervous and have no idea what im doing and worry if im doing it wrong. i have a girlfriend over in hongkong,i met her once in december and she stayed with me for 10days and shes coming over later in the year.she likes sex even though we did it only once,she wants me to take control,which is kinda hard since i have no confidence in that area.i want to please her and make her happy,she gets bored easy so i need variety for her.im very shy,conservative and really need some advice please since she expects me to take control.she says sex is very important in a relationship and i just want to make her happy.if anyone can be kind enough to give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated thank you
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 You'll do fine but you do need a complete "course" in sexuality, and "Annalisa" nailed it by suggesting Kama Sutra. My recommendation, and this means no slight whatsoever as I've read this version as well as others, is "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Kama Sutra." Read, practice and you'll be a master.
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reader, Miss-Blonde  +, writes (4 March 2008):
Dont worry. You could talk to her about it, ask her what she would find a more "interesting" and "exciting" way of doing it. Tell her that you feel shy and un confident about this kind of thing and she will understand and help you out a little bit by telling her if she likes to be touched gently or likes it rough etc.
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