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Should I leave her alone on keep on trying?

Q.   Hello guys and girls. On Mon i finally asked out this girl whom I've been having a crush on. She requested time to think about it. i let Tues pass n talked to her on wed. she told me to come back on Fri. on Thurs she had told my friend that her frie...

A.   9 April 2009: hey guys and girls. wel this is an update. the girl that u guys told me to let go has finally accepted me. and like i said, it was only a matter of tym. but anyways, thank y'all for tryin, your effort is highly appreciated:-) ... (read in full...)

This is my first time. How do I give a handjob?

Q.   Heyy, im 19 and am going to give my boyfriend a hand job for the first time, but im not sure what im doing. I've heard you have to pull back the foreskin, do you have to do this? And also, when you move your hand up and down, do you move the for...

A.   5 April 2009: the foreskin wil stay still. u hold his penis, place your thumb on the tip of the dick-head (underneath) then smoothly pump him. but if your boy is uncircumcised then avoid touchin his open dick-head as it is sensitive to touch, try to use lubricant ... (read in full...)

Who cums first between a guy n a gal?

Q.   hi there good people. I'm back again for your excellent advices. here's what I've been wondering most bout: who cums first between a guy n a gal?...

A.   28 March 2009: i didnt ask this question bcos i hav a low sex drive, no no no! neither of my partners has eva complained bout not being satisfied. its jst that i fail to notice when the lady is ejaculating. i honestly didnt think it would be a sin to ask. anyway ... (read in full...)

So, how do I find out if he's single??

Q.   right, i really like this guy, we clicked from the start. he said he had a girlfriend so i didn't think about him much. We were both at a party then where we were all a bit out of it. i THINK he said that he was going to break up with his girlfrie...

A.   28 March 2009: thats an easy one. simply ask him how his gf doing or ask him if they had managed to sort out their problem. i'm sure u'l get ur answer there. gud luck:-)... (read in full...)

Who cums first between a guy n a gal?

Q.   hi there good people. I'm back again for your excellent advices. here's what I've been wondering most bout: who cums first between a guy n a gal?...

A.   28 March 2009: thanx a lot sandman. i now understand better. as for u starfish, i'm not sure i get what u actually mean. of course i'm aware of the diseases we have. or u suggesting that i shouldn't hav asked this question? diseases or no diseases, we stil gonna ... (read in full...)

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

Q.   My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want ...

A.   28 March 2009: cuddle u not the problem here, but he is. sorry if this wil sound harsh but as much as u love him n fear to lose him, does he love u as much as u love him? does he even hav a lil fear of losing u? if yes, does his actions prove it?... (read in full...)

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

Q.   My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want ...

A.   28 March 2009: to me it sounds like he wants out of the relationship, otherwise he wouldn't have said that "things are not workin out n he doesnt want to waste your life" and now he's using those money issues to create arguements. one day u r goin to argue to a ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do in a relationship?

Q.   Hi everyone!!! I need help ummmm this guy asked me out and I said that I would think about it!! And I honestly don't know what to do sure I like him and everything but I've never been in a relationship or anything that has to do with that except for ...

A.   28 March 2009: wel since u like the dude and u do want to say yes, go ahead and put him at ease. and u say u know nothing bout being in a relationship. here's my question, DO U THINK THERE IS ANYONE OUT THERE WHO WAS TAUGHT HOW TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP? "i dont ... (read in full...)

Should I leave her alone on keep on trying?

Q.   Hello guys and girls. On Mon i finally asked out this girl whom I've been having a crush on. She requested time to think about it. i let Tues pass n talked to her on wed. she told me to come back on Fri. on Thurs she had told my friend that her frie...

A.   28 March 2009: I've known her for over a year and yes she is worth all the hassles. shes been really cool since i asked her out on mon, its only fri that she changed. and as she said to my friend "she doesn't want her friends to think shes weak" so i think her not ... (read in full...)

Proper grammar please!!!

Q.   this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...

A.   26 March 2009: come on beth! who cares about gramma? we have a limited space of words here so we use abbreviated words to ensure that our texts fits wel in a single message. i'm not a native english speaker myself but people understand me here. so if you get the ... (read in full...)

Does masturbation makes a penis smaller?

Q.   hello good people! does masturbation makes a penis smaller? and does weight play a role in as far as the penis size is concerned?...

A.   26 March 2009: wel q1605 i dont have sufficient information myself about this. a friend of mine is experiencing these problems and since he doesn't have internet access he asked me to pose a question for him. but thanks anyway, i'l try and find out more about it ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't approve of me hanging out with one of my guy friends. What do I do?

Q.   Hi, lately I've really been missing all my friends and this weekend there is a huge party happening which is really exciting because i'll get to see all of my friends there. the problem is i know that this boy (let's call him Shaun) is going wh...

A.   26 March 2009: hey home-girl:-). wel my girlfriend also have a so-called guy friend, and i wholeheartedly hate their friendship. and i noticed that de reason i hate it so much is dat i truely love my gal and i'm very jealous of her. so it might be that your bf ... (read in full...)

Does masturbation makes a penis smaller?

Q.   hello good people! does masturbation makes a penis smaller? and does weight play a role in as far as the penis size is concerned?...

A.   26 March 2009: mama2b your response doesn't sound 16, its mature n it has helped a lot. and you also mr me n hold guy, thanx a lot guys u hav been great help. cant wait to see y'all in my country come 2010:-)... (read in full...)

In the loop with 2 guys

Q.   Hi, I was dating a guy for 6 months and he told me he wasnt ready for a steady relationship. Since then i moved on and met someone else who is 20years older. Been dating him for 3 months. He is very nice to me and he is looking for something ve...

A.   9 March 2009: u knw often guys who r scared of commitments r players. dey dnt want to commit bcoz dey knw dat once u find out bout de other relationship, u'd nag him bout dat commitment issue. but i'm not sayin dat ur guy is a player thou. so my advice is dat u ... (read in full...)

He refuses to go down on me

Q.   I am just wondering why my boyfriend won't go down on me anymore. We haveo nly been together about 4 months and I keep myself well groomed. THe most it ever gets to down there is a little stubbly which he has commented he likes because it "tickles" ...

A.   9 March 2009: hey jess. wel i think i'm more or de same as ur man. i used to go down on my girl everytime we hit it on n blv me i reali enjoyed it but dat changed instantly wen 1 day i went down n came out wit blood, she was enterin dat of de month. i was so ... (read in full...)

I want this crazy sex addiction to stop now!

Q.   Hi guys 'n gals. I'm a 19 year old dude who is CRAZY about sex. I can't go even 2 days without getting some and I always use a condom but I just don't wanna go on like any more. It's like I'm dependent on sex. I have 3 girlfriends currently. If I ...

A.   4 March 2009: Cat! i dnt think it has much to do wit free tym coz i'm currently occupied as a sec yr student, i play soccer n volley ball n i go 4 practises 5 tyms a week. but u r ryt thou bcoz wen i'm in sport i even 4get dat i hav a gf, but once i'm alone dats ... (read in full...)

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