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*ilo-kid
writes: Hello guys and girls. On Mon i finally asked out this girl whom I've been having a crush on. She requested time to think about it. i let Tues pass n talked to her on wed. she told me to come back on Fri. on Thurs she had told my friend that her friends will think shes weak if she just agrees over one week. today when i talked to her she completely blew me off, even promised not to talk to me if i keep nagging. should i leave her alone on keep on trying?
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reader, Milo-kid +, writes (9 April 2009):
Milo-kid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys and girls. wel this is an update. the girl that u guys told me to let go has finally accepted me. and like i said, it was only a matter of tym. but anyways, thank y'all for tryin, your effort is highly appreciated:-)
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reader, Milo-kid +, writes (28 March 2009):
Milo-kid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've known her for over a year and yes she is worth all the hassles. shes been really cool since i asked her out on mon, its only fri that she changed. and as she said to my friend "she doesn't want her friends to think shes weak" so i think her not talkin to me is a time delayin technique. and another thing is that she knws the girl i used to date n she asked me if i was stil wit her, if she was so not interested, why would she ask me bout my ex
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reader, DLover +, writes (27 March 2009):
Sorry man, but leave her alone: she will only hurt you if you keep trying. I really sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): I know it might be hard and all but like if she really liked you im sure she would of agreed to the offer.
Seriously is she really worth all this hassel if she cant be botherd with you and all this im sure someone would love to be with you . x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): It is quite obvious that she does not seemed to like u at all,otherwise she will say yes right away. Do u need a week??? She is just trying to delay time or she does not wish to offend you as a friend.
However, from here, one cant tell what kind of relationship you have with her? Some one new or you know for a while??
Anyway, you may try to just buy two movie tickets, and pass one to her and tell her you will wait for her at the theatre. If she turns up, good luck. If she doesnt, you will now know the answer. Good luck
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