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I just found out that she's cheating on me. What should I do?

Q.   helo everyone i just found out now now that my girlfriend is cheating on me. my body is so weak right now. my heart beat has way way up. what should i do about this? the girl i thought i was going to marry....

A.   31 May 2011: Thank u very much everyone. its the second time she cheats now. i dont need this in my life. but i am glad she showed me her real self, now i can focus my energy on finding someone who wont stabe me in the back. i dont think ama sleep tonite. thanx ... (read in full...)

I'm scared to lose her but she has lost love for me, what can I do to get her back in my arms?

Q.   Me and my girl started dating last year march 2009, things became solid in April, thats when life time promises started...we promised to love each other no matter what obstacles may come our way. We both started so smooth and even when hard times ...

A.   6 May 2011: Thanx very much for your advise, we broke and iv tryd my best shes just so over me. i guess i will have to live with that. i think i am done with commitments now. ... (read in full...)

I really like him, but I am afraid he will be turned off when he sees me naked.

Q.   im 18/f im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls he's slept with have been extremely thin with models bodies. i weigh around 57kg and im not very ...

A.   5 May 2011: :) wish you could come here and see guys here don't care about thin bodies or what so ever. just go with the flow if he doesn't like you, you'll see that. or better yet wait for someone who will do that in the name of love not because of body ... (read in full...)

Should I make her Miss Right even though she doesn't challenge my mind?

Q.   Dear everyone i would like to hear your honest inputs on this statement. i alway wanted to settle for a smart intelligent lady, someone who would challenge me thoughtfully until i met nally she is my current girlfriend now and i love her so very ...

A.   24 January 2011: :) Thanks for the honesty. ... (read in full...)

He cried when he ejaculated! Is this normal?

Q.   i have just started a new relationship and slept together for the first time although we didnt have sex just foreplay . i just wondered if it was normal for a man to cry whilst ejeculating never had this happen before ...

A.   23 August 2010: The feeling was overwhelming 4 him, he reached cloud 9. do it again and see if he will cry again. halla... (read in full...)

Problems with PE( premature ejaculation) please help

Q.   I, 18, have been dating my girlfriend, 19, for almost 2 years. We first started having sex 7 months into our relationship. We had experiance oral sex only 5 months into out relationship. I love my girlfriend and although she doesn't find herself ...

A.   21 August 2010: well i dont know on your side how its done, but here where i live everyone calls it 'rounds' after getting it on the first time we wait several minutes and go againg, that round two. its like taking a break of 5to10 minutes and slip in the condm on ... (read in full...)

Too wet! How do I make it not that wet?

Q.   My vagina gets really wet, even when i think about sex. My 2 ex's have pointed it out, and frankly its embarrassing. I know its normal, but its really embarrassing. Is there anything i can do to not make it that wet? Thanks for your comments! ...

A.   21 August 2010: Getting very wet turns man on, so you shouldnt worry about that, you are lucky that you produce enough natural lube to last all night, many womens suffer from dryness and have to use lube, you dont want that to happen to you i promise you. wear a ... (read in full...)

How can I relax when I masterbate?

Q.   I have recently started trying to masturbate. One of the reasons why I want to masturbate is to break my hymen so it will be easier to wear tampons. I have tried to masturbate with the end of a toothbrush and it goes in a little bit. I am too scared ...

A.   21 August 2010: Well, firstly yes its okay to masterbate but stop using a toothbrush that will hurt u, rather use your middle finger or buy a rubber penus without telling any1. try masterbating on a warm bath at night that can help, and dont worry about how your ... (read in full...)

Should I trust my best friends, when coming to my relationships with my sweet lady?

Q.   i need a advise on this satuation, what do i do when my friend likes my girlfriend, i mean the liking that gives him wetdreams at night. i have bein friend with this guy for 3years and he never stoped liking the girls i was with, currently know im ...

A.   21 August 2010: ok thanx, but i dnt thnk tht myt change anythng, but if he doest back of shit will happen.... (read in full...)

Circumcision for women... is this all taboo?

Q.   Hello, I'm a south african citizen, there are many cultures all over the world and some are considerd taboo.. especially here in the african continent to where im from, i live in johannesburg. most of you who have visited s.a would know it. There ...

A.   9 August 2010: ooh no im a guy i cant do that, i askd this becouse i have a best female friend wich shes venda and her culture they do that, so she askd me about ths and says shes scard to death that she has to go through that.. and what i should infom u about, ... (read in full...)

Do all women squirt?

Q.   do all women squirt ??? and can all women cum from clit and from vagina??...

A.   9 August 2010: iv had few women who squirted on me, i find it cute and its boosts a man to perform even more. bt nah few can do that.... (read in full...)

Circumcision for women... is this all taboo?

Q.   Hello, I'm a south african citizen, there are many cultures all over the world and some are considerd taboo.. especially here in the african continent to where im from, i live in johannesburg. most of you who have visited s.a would know it. There ...

A.   9 August 2010: people are never okay about how they look from inside-out. iv heard about some other stories about womens vagina saw up to prevent them from having sex at a young age. anyways thx 4 the replys.... (read in full...)

Committed relationship, just not able to reach sexual satisfaction

Q.   I'm am 17 about to turn 18 and i have a wonderful boyfriend who is turning 19 soon. we have a good relationship, we've been together for at most four years now but this past year our relationship has been rocky. we dont get to see each other much do ...

A.   9 August 2010: That happens to any 1 , what you should do is make love not have sex, just make evrythng romantic like on the movies make use of the space amoungst you, i and my gf sometimes use diffrent thngs like durex excersories best advice stop holding back ... (read in full...)

Young love gone wrong

Q.   me and my ex boyfriend dated for 18 months, but when summer came along i broke it off due to a fight we had. i didnt think it would be a "done of good" break up but, we are now on our third month apart and he does still call me. although, last week ...

A.   9 August 2010: well what i can tel u from my expirnce is go to his place, friends always tel us not to go back i wonder why maybe 1of ur friend wants him, no 1 said love doesnt hurt it does less of the time every one goes through that its part of love. i think he ... (read in full...)

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