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writes: I have recently started trying to masturbate. One of the reasons why I want to masturbate is to break my hymen so it will be easier to wear tampons. I have tried to masturbate with the end of a toothbrush and it goes in a little bit. I am too scared to look down there [I dont know why, I just am]. When I try to masturbate I get really nervous and tense up. But whenever I fantasize I get aroused. Whenever I do try to masturbate it really hurts, kind of like theres a pressure inside me and I have to push through it to make it go away[this is my hymen, right?] What I want to know is, how can I relax? I sort of know where my vagina is but I want clarification [ is kind of farther back or in the middle?] What can use? Will it hurt and bleed when I break my hymen? Is it safe to masturbate? What are some ways that I can look at myself down there without getting all quesy? Whenever I look down there I think that I see something wrong and think that im not normal [ which i know im fine but im nervous and paranoid that my parts arent the same as other womens, which ive never seen.] All answers are GREATLY appreciated. Thanx
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reader, Melltoo101  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 Well, firstly yes its okay to masterbate but stop using a toothbrush that will hurt u, rather use your middle finger or buy a rubber penus without telling any1. try masterbating on a warm bath at night that can help, and dont worry about how your vagina looks, i think every vagina has its own look, that doesnt matters to anyone as long as it gets the job done. look at it, if you dont who will?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Honestly I think you need to go see your obgyn. They can answer you questions better than anyone on here can. If that's not an option your going to have to look at your vagina in a mirror. There are some types of hymen abnormalities that will cause problems with penetration. You may want to look those up and compare them to yours.
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reader, lion heart  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 well im a boy but, try it wen you in the bath or shower because you will be more relaxed and less tence and your body will open up more so it will be easyer also if your bodys wet your fingers or what ever your using will slide more easly. hope this will help. xx
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