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... Send *el_22 a private message | | | *el_22's profile:Hi, i'm Melissa and im 22 from England. I don't feel old enough to be able to preach to people what's right and what's wrong but I have had a lot of life experience for my age 2 kids, 2 different dad's, violence and relationship troubles and I like to think that maybe what I have learnt can help other people that's why I came on here. Plus I have troubles of my own that I could do with help with! X X X |
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Does he really not remember kissing me or is he just pretending to forget?
Q. I went to a party the other night and I kissed a boy there that I've liked for a long time, we were both tipsy but not drunk, my friend saw us and the next day she said "omg i saw you kissing" to him but hes pretending he was too drunk to remember ...
A. 8 February 2007: Maybe this guy likes you but is scared of saying anything that is why he is making out to his friends that he doesn't if that makes sense?! Maybe you should say something to him about how much you like him if you are sure that he likes you, you have ... (read in full...)
Does this guy still have feelings for me?
Q. i went out with this lad for 3 days in january because he really fancied me but i didnt like him like that and plus everyone made fun of me so i dumped him but i really like this lad. My friend asked him out for me and he said no but its really ...
A. 8 February 2007: I firstly think it was wrong of you because you dumped him because of what people said, but thats your decision we live and learn if you think this boy likes you still and you like him you should talk about it, if he says he no longer feels this way ... (read in full...)
My ex lied to me about loving me for a year. Now I'm terrified to tell my new bf I love him b/c of what might happen!
Q. Back about 5 years ago I started dating this guy (I'll call him D) D and I dated for 2 and a half years. About a year into this relationship (he always hated that word) we started having problems. I didn't want to let him go, so we continued to ...
A. 7 February 2007: If this guy really loves you and you really love him then go for it you have nothing to lose you know that you can pick yourself up dust yourself off and start again. I'm sure he will be delighted he's probably as scared as you are xx... (read in full...)
After only 3 months, he is going out with someone else.
Q. I started dating my bestfriend 3 years ago. Now he has broken up with me and is now after only 3 months being apart is going out with someone else. But he still wants to hang out and he knows that it hurts me for him to be dating someone else. Im ...
A. 7 February 2007: Hey honey this must be so hard for you as your ex has obviously moved on, and it may seem obvious to say but you need to do the same you are a young girl and you should be having the time of you're life! It is hard to have fun at first because he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I'm boring in bed!
Q. My boyfriend says he works too hard to try to get an orgasm when we have sex. Basically, he thinks I'm boring in bed. What can I do to keep his interest?...
A. 7 February 2007: This must be hard for you, I would suggest spicing things up, it all depends on what you and you're partner are into but you could take control have confidence in what you're doing too a man always finds it a turn-on when the women knows what there ... (read in full...)
Becoming more than friends with an older lady... but scared because she's said in the past she likes guys who are well hung!
Q. I've been friends with this older lady friend of mine for three years. Even though the age gap is about seventeen years is doesnt matter as we get on so well. I've started to like her more than a mate and I'm getting signs that she's starting to be ...
A. 7 February 2007: Well I must say that if this lady truly wants to be with a person then it shouldnt come down to the size of their penis, most women will say that want a larger one but when it comes to it size really doesnt matter, maybe you sould just go for it and ... (read in full...)
Things were fine, then she broke up and wouldn't say why.... Why!?
Q. me and my ex were doing good and had many future plans, then at the click of the fingers she broke up with me. i asked her why and she wouldnt answer me truthfully. what should i do?...
A. 7 February 2007: If your ex cant be honest with you and give you an explanation as to why she ended the realtionship you are better off out! I know it is hard when you are in love with someone but it has to be understood at the same time she may not have loved you, ... (read in full...)
Worried about the little lump on my vagina. Any ideas what it could be?
Q. About a month ago i found a tiny lump in my vagina. Its not growing or hurting but its just there. im 16, im not a virgin and im really worried. its really small and its just kind of sitting on one of my "lips", what should i do? i dont want to go ...
A. 7 February 2007: Hey there I understand you're big concern as things to do with that area are always worrying but I had something similar recently, it turned out to be a boil!! It sounds disgusting having a boil there and its not because of not bathing enough its ... (read in full...)
Do I still have feelings for my ex after all this time?
Q. Hi ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we have a beautiful baby together but recently we've become distant he never compliments me and is always threatening to leave if I dont let him do as he pleases. It was last weekend when I saw an ...
A. 7 February 2007: I want to speak to my ex about this but its difficult my partner will be there and how do I know if he's even interested just after 1 night of compliments and flirting!! Do you think it sounds like my ex might still like me he kept touching my ... (read in full...)
Do I still have feelings for my ex after all this time?
Q. Hi ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we have a beautiful baby together but recently we've become distant he never compliments me and is always threatening to leave if I dont let him do as he pleases. It was last weekend when I saw an ...
A. 7 February 2007: I dont even know if my ex still likes me but he kept touching me and complimenting me so does he still have feelings or is it just wishful thinking?? The other problem is how do I talk to him when my partner will be there it is such a difficult ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, a virgin and I need to know--how do you give someone head and toss him off?
Q. Hey im 15 yeah and my boyfriend is 17 i hav been with my lad for 3 months or so and we both decided to have sex,and i am definatley ready i'm a virgin, but my bf isnt i have a cuple of qwestions, firstly, the problem is i havent properley started ...
A. 6 February 2007: Hmmmm, this is difficult firstly you aren't actually legally old enough for intercourse but then I know what it's like if you;ve made your mind up you wont change it. There is no way you're boyfriend can tell that you haven't started your period ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified beyond belief. My career is just taking off and I find out..I'm pregnant! Advice is needed!
Q. Hey folks. Thanks so much to everyone who's been so helpful whenever i've needed advice. I really do take on board what you say. I am 22 this coming May, i've been seeing someone for nearly 5 months who i love and is like my best friend but who i...
A. 6 February 2007: Hi, I know exactly how you feel at 22 myself I have 2 kids but life doesn't really have to change I had my 1st at 18 and was considering an abortion but I had to weigh up whether I would be able to live with myself and how to change the way things ... (read in full...)
Is he really cheating on me or am I being paranoid?
Q. i need help, my husband has recently started hiding things from me, he lies when i ask him questions on where he's been and i have found a girls telephone number on his mobile. when i confront him about her he says they are work collegues. my ...
A. 6 February 2007: I would definately feel inclined to make a call to this number or get him to ring her, if he refuses then maybe that could be a sign of a guilty concience. If she is simply a work colleague then he will have no problem in calling her it wouldnt be ... (read in full...)
Since his Mother passed away, my husband wants a new baby. I'm not sure if I can handle this! What should I do?
Q. My husbands mother died 1 week ago today. He is getting better but he is naturally very emotional. I have been there to support him every step of the way and I will continue to do so. Ever since his mother passed away he has been trying to talk ...
A. 6 February 2007: Have you discussed this with your husband? Naturally you dont want to deny him of anything especially in his hour of need but dont be pressured into having a baby just because of this. It is hard I know and has to be dealt with carefully but if you ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're in love?
Q. how do you know when ur in love???...
A. 6 February 2007: I think you will know when your in love by the feeling you get in your tummy everytime you see the person and that you think of them when you wake and when you go to sleep. A true love is like a best friend and a soul-mate the best feeling you could ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I don't know what to say to him!
Q. I have a boyfriend who is really nice, and i really like him, and i think he likes me to, but when I'm with him, one on one, i feel really awkward, i never know what to say, people just say it will come naturally, but i dont find it does! and i ...
A. 6 February 2007: Does he have anything to say? If he doesn't then maybe you just have nothing in common it shouldnt be awkward it should come naturally and if it doesnt then maybe you need to think about moving on xx... (read in full...)
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