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Is my friend sleeping with my dad?

Q.   well last year my 2 friends stayed when my step mum and bro's went away and left me and my dad. my dad and her (my friend) have been flirting she will constantly have her boobs out in front (once in knickers and bra...looked like 4 attention) of him ...

A.   25 May 2012: You already know the truth..the signs are allthere its sad but they will probaly never admit it..in time they will get caught I just worry about your mom..not only is it not easy being cheated on but the girl being 16is deffinetly not cool..i would ... (read in full...)

Do men bond more during sex?

Q.   So me and this guy have been seeing each other for over a month now and we've been having sex consistently.So far its all going very well and he tells me how much he likes me and cares about me. Each sex session has been really intense and I can't ...

A.   10 May 2012: Your seeing each other right? So the only way you will see if he will commit is to bring up another guy you met or say you did and not respond to him as often. Act like your to busy you will se if he ends up jealous or contacts you more often he p... (read in full...)

How do I fix it, I kissed another girl!

Q.   Well I messed up pretty good last night and need some advice. I've been with my gf for 7 months. I love her with all my heart. When we're together there's no where else I would rather be or with. I went out last night with some buds and got ...

A.   8 May 2012: You have to do what it takes no matter how annoying it will b ..meaning if she ?s u show her your phone be open an honest frim hete on out an maybe stop going out all the time or when u do dont drink that much if thats what happens..yes she may mot ... (read in full...)

Is it bad if the person you're dating is the type of person who breaks the no-contact rule after a break up with an ex?

Q.   I know that past dating behavior in a person is important to look at, and if there are extreme behaviors, that sometimes you might just want to walk away (like abuse or lying or cheating). But if a person is the type to break the no-contact rule ...

A.   8 May 2012: Def..depends on how long since they brok up but when u say keeps intouch..do u mean he still had contact? Or he just contacted her/chased her in the begining of the break up? Cause I agree there shouldnt be any contact at all if it was a recent ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend liking/saving sexy pictures of exes and attractive female friends, how to overcome my jealousy

Q.   I know my plight is not as dire as some and I should consider myself lucky its not worse. I just want to know how to get over my anger and jealousy so we dont have to fight about it anymore! My boyfriend of nearly 6 years (hes in his early thirti...

A.   28 April 2012: I wouldnt let that go if I were u..would he want u to have an still collect pics of your exs? Ha doubt it..especially if they were sexy ones..an im sure him liking sexy pics on fb of his exs..gives his exs wrong idea..i would if my ex was saying ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my boyfriend acknowledge our relationship on his Facebook wall?

Q.   Ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now I decided to change relationship status on facebook and tagged him to say its him I'm dating but even though he changed to say his in a relationship he has ignored my request.he also has deleted the ...

A.   25 April 2012: He should want the whole fb clan to know hes with someone an is happy an proud hes in a relationship..if he acts funny when u ask him I would say hes hiding some thing too..i still dont think theres any excuse my boyfriend could give me that would ... (read in full...)

My husband is a control freak and abusive but I love him!

Q.   I have been married for two years now. My husband is a very controlling man and extremely domineering. He becomes jelous or angry at me for the most absurd reasons such as me hanging the clothes out to dry when his brother is in the backyard. (his ...

A.   25 April 2012: That isnt love..you say you love him..would you treat him like that or anyone you love? Hes not just physically abusive but mentally..which is worse..your a prisoner in your own home life an marriage..think mire if yourself..you deserve better.an ... (read in full...)

Drawing boundaries with an FWB.

Q.   I've got a pretty typical but still vexing problem... how do you deal with jealousy and boundaries when in a friends-with-benefits situation? I've been hanging out with the same guy, about two and a half months now. When we first started hanging ...

A.   5 April 2012: Sorry I'm writing this on my phone so if I mess up words or don't finish what I was saying like what just happened sorry..LOL..anyway as everyone else has said...sounds like you are getting feeling for him an he doesn't want anything but what he has ... (read in full...)

Drawing boundaries with an FWB.

Q.   I've got a pretty typical but still vexing problem... how do you deal with jealousy and boundaries when in a friends-with-benefits situation? I've been hanging out with the same guy, about two and a half months now. When we first started hanging ...

A.   5 April 2012: Ok so I have had a few fbws.. I set rules as soon ad us being fwbs was established...my first rule is no cuddling he comes over maybe hangs out for a bit ad a friend then we have sex then he or you leave ..cuddling is in my rules a big no no its too ... (read in full...)

I slept with another girl when we broke up and she cant forgive me, any advice?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and at about the half way point we hit a snag a "took a break" We are young but really in love and I think she may be the one for me. But back to the "break" see when we took this 2 week break I ...

A.   5 April 2012: Let me start by saying at least you recognize you made a mistake ..that's great..now being a woman an have delt with same issue the only advise that I can give is be an open book from now on if she's feeling doubt full an insecure help her see she ... (read in full...)

How could he just end things like that to go with a girl young enough to be his daughter?

Q.   Ok so I was with a Guy for a year..its been to rocky but recently I started thinking he was talking to other girls through texts an Facebook so I ended it after a few lies N things I found an he was keeping his phone on him an getting texted late ...

A.   5 April 2012: Thank you for advice I know he must have been talking to her before we ended since he was out drinking that Wednesday an I he dropped condoms out of his jacket pocket that Saturday an he denied talking to anyone but that Sunday he's on Facebook ... (read in full...)

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