My obsessing/infatuation is making me miserable. How can I stop?
Q. I have a problem with infatuation/obsession that is making me miserable. Every time I meet a girl that I like it's like a thunder bolt hits me. From the first date I become completely infatuated and can't stop thinking about the person. I am afr...
A. 27 July 2015: Hi. Well first and foremost, try not to over do the alchohol for health reasons. You fall in love very easily. Not a bad thing. It shows you are human and have great passion, which means that some day soon, when you meet the right girl, she will... (read in full...)
Should I apologize to my married co-worker for the touchy feely session we had?
Q. Hi there. I'm a gay man and recently went on a work trip with a straight co-worker (who knows I am gay).We went out one night and got very drunk. We ended up back in my hotel room having a nightcap. We got to taking our shirts off to compare bodies, ...
A. 2 June 2015: Don't tell your partner. It will upset him, and he may not trust you as much as he did before. It's not serious enough to risk that. Please don't. As for your work mate, you could make reference to it in a jokey way as if it was nothing(which it ... (read in full...)
I was going to break up with him but then I fell for him again
Q. Dear Cupid I have an on and off relationship with my bf for past 4 years. He always verbally abuses me, belittles me, ignores me for long period of time, make sure my esteem always stays all time low.... Coming to the current happenings, he wa...
A. 25 September 2014: I was in exactly the sane situation as you for three long years. He's a nasty manupulative bully. You really must gather the support of freinds and family and cut all contact. Don't take any calls or respond to him no matter what he says, as he will ... (read in full...)
I've stopped chasing him and making myself available. Now what?
Q. I need some advice regarding my boyfriend, possibly ex. Anyway, we've been together 3 years. Up until a few months ago we'd see each other all the time but due to new work schedules we'd started seeing each other on the weekends and during the week ...
A. 28 December 2013: I had this same problem with my ex. I used to chase him,and when I stopped,he went nuts,and treated me really badly. So badly, i had to leave. Keep your distance,and see what he does. This will give you your answer in around a month. Good luck. Natx... (read in full...)
I want to be proactive about ending this relationship, but how?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend 18 months. He has let me down over money, flirting and not taking enough responsibility. He is not a bad person but I met him when I was at a low point after divorce and we dont have much in common. I feel I have put a ...
A. 25 December 2013: Hi. Sorry to hear you are struggling. Why not write him an email ending it? Tell him when you see him that you don.t think things are working out,and if you can.t end it face to face,write him a kind email doing so. Say you appreciate the time you ... (read in full...)
I want to talk things through and she never does
Q. I have a partner that is completely conflict avoidant. She would rather have painful dental surgery I believe, than listen to me address a problem or feeling I have. I realize this is quite backwards for most couples, as the man is usually the o...
A. 3 December 2013: Hi. I have just come out of a long relationship with someone like this. There is nothing wrong with you,but there is something wrong with her. What she is doing is aggresive and rude,and hs abusive what ever way you look at it. How dare she slam ... (read in full...)
How can I remain strong once my lying cheating ex begins his apologetic stage?
Q. Hello and thanks I just broke up with my bf yesterday and I'm feeling saddened that it had to come to this. We were together on and off for 3 yrs. We had issues yrs ago when I caught him cheating with two different women online one woman was hi...
A. 4 November 2013: Hi, I was in exactly the same position as you and am still working it though, but mostly over it. It's hard. There are good days and bad days, but I think given enough time and no contact what so ever, you will move on. PM me if you want to chat. xx... (read in full...)
Why do I get hiccups all the time and what can I do about them?
Q. Though this one is not related with relationship etc, but this is a situation i am currently going through. Problem I am facing right now is that, I get too much of hiccups, sometimes continuously for many hours and after every 5 minutes or so co...
A. 10 July 2013: A teaspoon of brown viniger. It works everytime. X... (read in full...)
Music is my life, but I hate being in a band with these guys
Q. Dear aunts, This isn't a romantic relationship question, but I hope you can help me. I'm really torn up and upset about this. well, it's that I play the guitar in a band. Music has been my absolute life for a long time and I always LONGED to...
A. 23 June 2013: Ok. I too am a musician. Here.s what you do. You look hard for another band. You join musicians websites and advertise yourself,and you answer ads. It.s taken me 8 months to find a new band,but they are out there. Stick this out a little longer if ... (read in full...)
Date asked if we could cut date short then said we'd go out for a drink but when the time came he never responded
Q. I went on a date last week with a guy I met online. We got on well, but after a few hours he said he had to leave to go to a friend's party. He asked me if I was free the next week to go for another drink. I said yes, we arranged to meet on a ...
A. 17 May 2013: His loss. Don't worry about it. He's a d**k. ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's attention seeking. I want him, but feel trapped!
Q. Dear all. I would appreciate your views please. I.ve been seeing a man for just over two years. It has been difficult,and volitile. I really love him,but have had to back off,and am seeing him alot less to avoid getting hurt,and trying to slowly ...
A. 17 May 2013: Thanks Oldbag. I have backed off and am not taking his calls and am starting to look and feel better already. :o)... (read in full...)
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