Being too harsh on my ex girlfriend?
Q. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer size 12. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry...
A. 9 April 2009: i don't know whether you realise but you come across as extremely emotionaly immature, i'm not surprised your ex g/f is so upset how you've treated her is dispicable. Suggest you read up on what a relationship is supposed to be about and go fro... (read in full...)
I just found out my husband is an alcoholic. What do I do now? Help me
Q. I have been married for 21 years. I recently realized my husband has a drinking problem. He will drink everyday if given the opportunity. It will be two years in August since the tragic death of our son, his stepson. I miss my son and I know his ...
A. 7 April 2009: my mum married my step dad and found out he was a secret alcoholic 10 years later - in the meantime he'd been driving the family around while drunk, coming home pissed, taking money out of their savings account and all the while denying that there ... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a man 25 years older, and I am concerned about it.
Q. My daughter is 20 years old and is away in college. While there, she supposedly accidently bumped into her former best friend's father, who now lives in that town. She told me about it but at first I didn't think too much of it. Eventually she ...
A. 7 April 2009: your daughter is a grown woman and will not appreciate interferance from you.
It is probably tough seeing her date such an older man - but it will either fizzle out in due course (1yr is still very much a honeymoon period), or it really is true ... (read in full...)
Am I using condoms corectly?
Q. when i put a condom on it only goes like ahalf way down and it wont go any furthere..... is this rite o and is it supost to be so tight it hurts???...
A. 7 April 2009: well i am not going to judge i'd rather you used a condom than got a young girl pregnant. Try another brand and roll it all the way down as far as it will go once you've popped it on. good luck... (read in full...)
I have no idea why my husband doesn't want sex anymore
Q. im 20, my husbands 25. we have been married for a year and have a 9 months year old son. he seems like he has lost interest in having sex with me. sex never use to be a problem, and all of a sudden he makes up excuses..its driving me insane. i have...
A. 7 April 2009: sorry to raise this - might he be having an afair? is there any possibility?... (read in full...)
Advice needed: Guys what would your reaction be and just what am I supposed to do?
Q. something happened 3 weeks ago that i still need to like figure out , me and my boyfriend went over to a friend's house while his parents were away , there was the 3 of us and the friend's gf , anyways we got drunk and were having fun , he was show...
A. 7 April 2009: usually it's best to come clean about stuff, but you were all drunk and i think there's nothing really to be gained by telling anyone now. Perhaps this can be a lesson to you - not to get so shitfaced that you don't know what's going on (if you... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my b/f's stepdad. What should I do?
Q. hi i need some advice. I'm a young girl and currently in a relationship with a boy my age and have been with him for 10 months. I really like him but recently I've been starting to get on really well with his step dad who is much older than me but ...
A. 7 April 2009: i have two things to say
1. how would your b/f feel if he found out? Betrayed by both his girlfriend and step father. Two relationships destroyed, for what? Is there a mum involved in all this - i.e. the step dad's wife? Make that three relation... (read in full...)
Should I even try to win him back?
Q. Let's start at the beginning: I met a guy on the first day of university, and we started going out shortly afterwards. We were together 18 months, then we got engaged (pretty young i know!). We have lived together for two years, and been engaged...
A. 7 April 2009: move on. when exes meet someone knew they become more attractive!! it didn't work out and it's a big wide world out there.
Shame about the housing situation - can't you find a way around it? it must be doing your head in.... (read in full...)
Tough time getting over co-worker breakup!
Q. long story short, my ex and I still work together, broke up 10 months ago. recently we did the FWB thing and things (for me anyways) were AMAZING. she mentioned during our mutual breakup that shed be "open-minded" to us potentially re-dating down ...
A. 7 April 2009: sorry you're hurting so much - it must be touch seeing this woman at work. I don't know what FWB means but i gather you started seein each other again. Do you know she only had 2 dates with this person? Perhaps that is true, some people just clic... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about either of these men
Q. i don't know what to do, sorry if i ramble a bit i think all this detail is important i am single and have really only had two significant boyfriends and i can't seem to move on and be happy. i met Boyfriend 1 in 1995 and went out with him for abo...
A. 7 April 2009: thanks to you both.
tellulah - that is a really nice reply and deep down i know what you say is true. I will try to not try so hard to replace them.
Anon - no i'm a scorpio actually. thanks for the tips.
I suppose i shouldn't really see bf ... (read in full...)
I don't know if our relationship is going anywhere, I feel so alone.
Q. I've been with my bf for over 3 years and you'd think by now we'd stop fighting but it's just getting worse. I hate it when he drinks because he's just stupid and I can't talk to him, not to mention, our first new years together i woke up to find ...
A. 7 April 2009: i think you can do better than this guy. When you talk to your boyfreind about issues they shopuld be supportive. It takes two to make a relationship work, you can't do it all by yourself. He is behaving immaturely and your insecuritie... (read in full...)
I don't understand what I'm meant to do
Q. I don't understand what I'm meant to do. I was with my boyfriend 8 months and I was convinced I was in love with him. I split up with him because i couldn't handle how he treated me; he punched me, pressured me into sex, made me feel generally s...
A. 7 April 2009: agree with cerberus, your friend is no friend at all by doing this, and it sounds like you are well out of there as this guy sounds like a right nasty piece of work.
Try hooking up with other friends and leave these two to it - if he treated you ... (read in full...)
Am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?
Q. Okay so when i went home for spring break I was introduced to this cute guy that I really like. I asked him out later that week and we have been going on dates every weekend I come home. I realise we have just started dating and I shouldn't be ...
A. 7 April 2009: it sounds like he is perhaps interested, but definitely up for sex.
If you want a relationship with this guy don't go there too soon, then, if he sticks around, you'll know whether he wants you or just a casual fling.
good luck.... (read in full...)
Does this mean he is really in to me in a big way?
Q. Hi everyone. Just really wanting some second opinions. I've been wit a new guy now for a few weeks and everything is going good, really good in fact, but this last week he's been acting differently. Good differently, and I just wanted to say some ...
A. 7 April 2009: it sounds like he is falling for you! enjoy it and see what happens from now, good luck... (read in full...)
How do I know that this is real love and not lust?
Q. I am married and have a son, he is 6. My husband is probably "the perfect husband " I have completely fallen in love with someone else. I don't actually know what to do, i cant bear the thought of taking my sons father away from him. How do i ge...
A. 7 April 2009: think long and hard before making any decision because there will be no going back. does this man love you too? what's his situation - is he married too? If you don't love your husband then you need to sit down with him, however hard that may be... (read in full...)
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