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writes:I don't understand what I'm meant to do. I was with my boyfriend 8 months and I was convinced I was in love with him.I split up with him because i couldn't handle how he treated me; he punched me, pressured me into sex, made me feel generally shit about myself and everything i did etc.My best friend recently got with him and it was only 2 weeks ago i told her I was still no where near over him. Am I just being selfish? What am i supposed to do, It hurts just thinking about it without seeing them get off in front of me.
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reader, mariaxx +, writes (7 April 2009):
agree with cerberus, your friend is no friend at all by doing this, and it sounds like you are well out of there as this guy sounds like a right nasty piece of work.
Try hooking up with other friends and leave these two to it - if he treated you so badly there's no reason to thnk he won't do it to your 'friend' as well so be prepared for her to come crying to you if he ends up treating her so badly that she leaves him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): No you're not being selfish at all, she is. Anyone here will tell you that getting with a friends ex is never a good idea and especially if they're your best friend.
If she is your best friend then surely she knows how badly he treated you, that kinda makes this all the more puzzling to me.
If I were in this situation I'd begin to distance myself from them both, I mean she's hurting you and she doesn't care, I would never treat a friend like that and I would never accept it from a friend.
Time to reconsider this friendship, make no mistake she knows exactly what she's doing and she doesn't give a crap about hurting you, they're not the actions of a friend.
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