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Am I just confused and homophobic?

Q.   I'm 15 year old girl and I'm a High school Freshman. I've always been a boy-crazy person. I mean I love guys so much, I go as far as having 7 crushes at the same time, and I used to be a tomboy, but I got over that last year. The problem is that I ...

A.   20 February 2011: It's probably just a phase. If it grosses you well yeah. This apparently happens to a lot of kids our age. Iv had that problem once or twice and I was utterly disgusted at the idea. I totally am only into guys so I was like why is this coming up? ... (read in full...)

Two girls, can't decide

Q.   Ok here's my problem, I am a 15 year old boy and I have never been in a real relationship with a girl or even kissed one on the lips. There are two girls that I have interests in. Girl A, I started to talk to her on facebook about 2 months ago when...

A.   20 February 2011: That makes sense. If girl A isn't ready for a relationship right now and you don't like her as much then it's girl B. :)... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much into these signs?

Q.   There is this guy and he is a really good friend of mine in my art class. I have known him since the beginning of this school year and iv been wondering for awhile if he likes me even though he as a girl friend (btw his gf is 2 years older than ...

A.   21 January 2011: Ok thanks :) ... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much into these signs?

Q.   There is this guy and he is a really good friend of mine in my art class. I have known him since the beginning of this school year and iv been wondering for awhile if he likes me even though he as a girl friend (btw his gf is 2 years older than ...

A.   21 January 2011: Extra info: he Acted like this before he started going out with her.... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much into these signs?

Q.   There is this guy and he is a really good friend of mine in my art class. I have known him since the beginning of this school year and iv been wondering for awhile if he likes me even though he as a girl friend (btw his gf is 2 years older than ...

A.   21 January 2011: Update: he talks about his girlfriend alot on face book. there was an argument on facebook involving his ex's and his girlfriend now. from what i say in my news feed his new gf is really mean and snoty lol (you know what i really want to say). but ... (read in full...)

This girl flirts with me but says we are just friends?

Q.   There's a girl who i like. She's stunning beyond words, even a blind man would agree. She flirts with me all time and is more than comfortable with me touching her anywhere. I seriously thought that she liked me and I told her i liked her and she ...

A.   21 January 2011: When I said should I ment shouldn't be drinking -_- ... (read in full...)

We want to go further but no privacy?

Q.   hey, i'm a girl and i'm 16 before i start.. here it goes: i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, dates, movie, he has met my mum and i've met his. I have known him for years but only just started properly getting close. I feel ready to go fu...

A.   21 January 2011: Well this Seems compicated. It appears your parents don't what you to do anything stupid, they are probably right, but if you feel your ready that's your dission. Ask you parents why they are treating this bf differently than your last. And as ... (read in full...)

This girl flirts with me but says we are just friends?

Q.   There's a girl who i like. She's stunning beyond words, even a blind man would agree. She flirts with me all time and is more than comfortable with me touching her anywhere. I seriously thought that she liked me and I told her i liked her and she ...

A.   21 January 2011: She may just like the attion form you. Some time really attractive people abuse there looks haha. But she and you sound kinda shallow. I mean if you only like her for looks and she just wants the attion....? It doesn't sound like a good match. ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel the need to talk about myself so much?

Q.   I've been a single child and all my family surrounded me with love. But for about a year now, I have self-esteem issues, I'm insecure and I feel unworthy of their love. Believe me, I'd love to know why, but I simply can't find its roots. I don't ...

A.   21 January 2011: Often when people have self-esteem issues they subcontiosly talk about them selves for a boost. When they talk about themselves it gets the other person thinking about them too. So in away you could be trying to get them to think better of you. ... (read in full...)

Does he see me as more than a friend?

Q.   I really liked a friend of mine for a while, almost three years, and I would like to see what other people think of my situation, and if I should finally make a move. He's a shy guy, and we accidentally met at our school's orientation. The first ...

A.   21 January 2011:  It does sound like he likes you but is shy about it. He may not know how distinguish to you his friendly feelings from his " I like ones" ones, but it seems like he is trying. Try to hang out in groups of people instead of just alone. It might ... (read in full...)

How to talk to him? Or get him to notice me? Or get over my mad feelings for him?

Q.   i feel so empty, knowing that he does not have feelings for me. I haven't asked him out front, but it's obvious in his actions that he doesn't really know i exist. It started out he'd see me, and smile. Or try and talk, but i never took action. I ne...

A.   21 January 2011: "I know he's too good for me" geeez well there Is your problem right there! People are drawn to people with confidence. I used tO be like you till I started therapy and energy work. You sound like you are depending on his affection to make you ... (read in full...)

She will not even let me hold her hand. Why is she so resistant to hand holding?

Q.   i have recently started dating my friend.i want to kiss her. I was just talking to her on the phone with her and jokingly i just said that i'll tickle her. She said that she won't even let me touch her. Whenever i'm with her she hasn't even held...

A.   21 January 2011: She may not comfortable with a public relationship, or if you her first "real" boyfriend she may be nervous. It could even be that she still only sees you as a friend? You did say you started dating a friend. Try asking her in privit if it's ok ... (read in full...)

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