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To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

Q.   my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

A.   31 December 2010: This is not a matter that you should be dealing with. This is between the baby's mom and your boyfriend, it's unfortunate that she uses you as a reason for him not to see his kid! However you should never let anyone run you out of the comforts of ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know why I get so upset?

Q.   Lately I have been really emotional. I will get really mad or start crying over the most pathetic things. I realize what I'm crying over is silly, but I can't help it. Does anyone know what could be wrong with me? ...

A.   31 December 2010: Dont know for sure, but have you had your period yet? Are these mood swings followed by cramps, headaches? You could be getting ready to start your period. Or maybe even depression. If these mood swings persist, you should see your doctor, and he ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for it to hurt?

Q.   hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we went a step further and he fingered me it was okay but nothing like i expected, the next time we met i tossed him of and he fingered me again except this time it hurt and i told him, i just ...

A.   30 December 2010: Maybe he was too aggressive. He may have even scratched you. I agree, all hands should be cleaned so bacteria doesnt get transmitted. But maybe you were tense. You have to relax, tell him to be gentle and not shove it up there, clip his nails, and ... (read in full...)

Why do I pee during sex???

Q.   My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a great sex life. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. During sex, I usually come a lot, and again and again but lately I've been having trouble coming during sex. It's ...

A.   30 December 2010: Im no sex expert but it seems to me you are experiencing female ejaculation, which resembles urine. It's viscosity is very thin, water like, like urine, however it is not urine. It's like male semen without the sperm. It comes from the female ... (read in full...)

I love my girlfriend and we're in an amazing relationship even though we're so far away....then why did I cheat?????

Q.   Ok so here's my situation I'm with the love of my life and she's the bestest person ever and we share and talk about everything Everything is great and i truly care for her and miss her and always think about her and she has the same feelings fo...

A.   30 December 2010: Only you can answer that. Was it a heat of the moment type ordeal, or was it premeditated? Are you sure you wont do it again? You are relatively young so perhaps your not as ready for a committed realtionship as you think. It will be hard for you to ... (read in full...)

Help! I'm only attracted to Latinos!

Q.   My profile flag is the Mexican flag, but I´m from another country originally. I`m teaching EFL here. I love it, but I am really in a bind and need advice! I don`t think I`m EVER going to be happy! I would like to have a boyfriend, and s...

A.   30 December 2010: What your feeling is completely normal, you have a preference and your preference is latinos. But ask yourself why is it that you are attrarcted to latinos? As no two people are the same, so it has to be something that you feel that all lations has ... (read in full...)

How to deal with the game he seems to be playing?

Q.   I don't know how to deal with this guy that seems to be playing games. Basically, when I show interest in him, he backs off even though he was the one who pursued me. He would always be the first to call, to ask me out, etc. But like I said, when I ...

A.   29 December 2010: You know some men are just like that. I know men who will literally tell me, they like the thrill of the chase, they like what they think they cant have. It makes it all more appealing. But you cant be too stand offish (like me, lol) you have to ... (read in full...)

I have always love her, how can I make her mine?

Q.   Ive known this girl for almost 4 years we have been best friends since the day we met. Ive always wanted to be with her and she wants me to take her out on her birthday tomorrow. I want to make her mine how do i do it?...

A.   29 December 2010: It sounds as if she definetely values you as a friend and she trust you, but she may only love you as a friend, does she discuss other guys with you as if your her girlfriend? If so its likely she just views you as a good friend. Tell her how you ... (read in full...)

Guys, please advise me if my boyfriend have sex with me because he loves me or just to satisfy himself?

Q.   Last month i had sex with my boyfriend. It was for the first time for me, but he already told me that he is a experienced person. I am in relationship with him for the last 3 years. Now i have moved to a city which is at 15h distance to his city. ...

A.   29 December 2010: I have found myself asking that same question with my lover. He recaps our sexual escapades quite often and tells me often hows he hooked and how I am the best he has ever had. But I think, guys just tell women that so they can get another round. ... (read in full...)

I have always love her, how can I make her mine?

Q.   Ive known this girl for almost 4 years we have been best friends since the day we met. Ive always wanted to be with her and she wants me to take her out on her birthday tomorrow. I want to make her mine how do i do it?...

A.   29 December 2010: It's a good sign that she wants you to take her out for her birthday, that shows how much she values her time with you. Does she know how you feel about her? Does she drop subtle hints to you that she may be more into you than just a friend? If so I ... (read in full...)

He didn't get me anything for Christmas! Does that mean he's not into me?

Q.   My boyfriend didn't get me anything for Christmas. We've only been dating a month. He is visiting family overseas right now so I sent him a present. He knew I was giving him something but still didn't get me anything. Should I take this to mean ...

A.   25 December 2010: I wouldnt get too bent out of shape about it. Remember the true meaning of Christmas. You have only been dating a short period of time, maybe he feels he doesnt know you well enough to get you a gift you really enjoy, or maybe he cannot afford ... (read in full...)

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